s*x question for all men?

Question

why do most men distance themselves right after having s*x with a girl? for example: they dont really like to cuddle or just show more affection like we girls do instead you rather just go to sleep.

Answer 1

I'll probably end up a cuddle after s*x.

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How hard is it to find a girl that's a virgin, hasn't had oral s*x, or anal s*x?

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Answer 2

It's a lot of work! Jeez... every hour you have s*x you burn 30 calories. Sad, but true.  It's nature's exercise!

Answer 3

Not all men dislke cuddling, or postplay...I for one like to cuddle and kiss..it's fun!

Answer 4

That's not our fault. the endorphins released numb our tiny brains and puts us to sleep like a baby. Besides.. that's supposed to be your opportunity to sneak off with someone else... but oh no... you women seem to prefer to be monogamous... whereas all guys are polyamorous!

Answer 5

yep, it's natural so as Ellen Friedman recommends in her book Light Her Fire men should fight against that urge to wanna go to sleep and cuddle their woman.

Answer 6

most men do but depends wen u ave s*x init if i have s*x about 1 then im not gonna go bed but jus coz it is hard work tryin to plz a girl but sometimes u actually do feel tired so u wanna sleep  

Answer 7

Chemicals released at the time of o****m and physical exersion can make men a little sleepy.

Answer 8

because they don't love you, and you can't comprehend that. you've been led otherwise, you think there's "more" and there just isn't. the objective had/has been met, period. end of story. (most guys will pretend they want to talk, at least)

Answer 9

women have multiple orgasms.... even after having a single o****m with a man they still want to be cuddled and get more affection

as oppsed to this men have only a single o****m making them want to sleep after an sexual act

Answer 10

There is a chemical released in the female brain that comes from cuddling with their partner that men lack. Men get that same release from the actual act.  

Answer 11

Well, s*x is exerting....think of when you exercise...when you're done, do you want to cuddle up to someone?  Or would you rather just relax???  You're all sweaty and heart is beating fast....shoot,  you just want to relax.

We snuggle a bit.......but usually we go right back to sleep....unless we have more time....

Answer 12

Generally, s*x is quite a workout for a man.    Of course he's tired.

A lot of energy is expended in s*x for most men, and some men, once they've had o****m, simply don't want to cuddle.

Men and women are different.      Most men enjoy looking at porm, and some women can't understand this.     It's the way men are.

Vive la difference!

Answer 13

Basically, it's because we are tired from the exertion and if it is late at night probably tired from a long day at work.

Try having s*x on Sunday morning after waking up.  There will be less tendency for the male to fall asleep afterwards.  You should ask him to consider giving you a nice cuddle after he rests for a minute or so.

Give him one or two minutes to recover from the o****m, then approach him saying you need a cuddle for some minutes before you get out of bed.  Tell him you need this to complete the act and if there is anything he needs you'll try to consider his needs also.

Most guys do want at least a few minutes to recover.  And cuddling afterwards for a guy takes a little practice to get used to -- since we are not 'hard wired' to do this.  Mother Nature tells us our job is done, move on.  We have to overcome this 'natural' way to be more acceptable to our ladies.

Answer 14

Basically because we are satisfied and you all are not. When we satisfy you all you go straight to sleep as well.

Answer 15

not me dear! after s*x, i like to get all i can from you before i go to sleep. if she wants more, ill give her more.