Sharing a dressing room?

Question

My fiance always wants me to go in the dressing room with him at stores like Target and Kohl's when he goes to buy clothes so he can get my opinion. I always sit outside because I feel it's inappropriate. Am I wrong?

I worked at Kohl's in California for many years and in that state we weren't allowed to ask women to leave mens dressing rooms or vise-versa.

Answer 1

Inappropriate, and not allowed in many stores.

Answer 2

Hmm, I would sit outside too.

Thats really weird..kindaa creepy weird.

I think your right.

Answer 3

If you feel uncomfortable with it, that's your choice and he should respect that, regardless of whether other people consider it "proper" or "improper".

Answer 4

From a guys point of view, it makes sense if you do go in because most guys want to get in and out when it comes to clothes shopping.  It saves him coming out after he tries each item on.  I don't think it is unacceptable at all.  Some places may ask you to exit the dressing room so yo do.

Answer 5

I'd stay just outside the dressing room and wait for him.  He can come out and model the stuff he wants you to see.

Answer 6

um, if he wants you to see it, then he comes OUTSIDE to show you!  

Answer 7

Not cool.  There's no need to make other folks nervous about what you may be doing in there.

Just wait outside and have him show stuff to you.

Answer 8

where i live its illegal

it leads to s*x

the attendants here in sc wont let the opposite anywhere near the fitting rooms

Answer 9

I think it is very inappropriate to have opposite genders in the same dressing rooms at the stores.  Whether the store allows it or not, it is very tacky.  There is nothing wrong with you waiting outside and him coming to where you can see him.  Stand your ground.

Answer 10

its ok if your waiting outside the dressing room with him.

or if you help him get dressed. people would see it inappropriate if you undress with him..but its  a free country..go for it  

Answer 11

I don't think that it is inappropriate because you are only going into his private dressing room, but if you do not feel right about it then you should continue to wait outside. Plus, most dressing rooms are small, so it would probably be uncomfortable sitting in there anyway as he tries on clothes.

Answer 12

Only go in if you feel comfortable  

Answer 13

i don't think your wrong i wouldn't go in either he can come out to you

Answer 14

No you are correct.

He is a cupcake.

Answer 15

I don't think it's inappropriate since you are engaged.

If it isn't allowed at the store, just wait outside and have him model for you outside the changing room.

And if you really don't want to, just say "No thanks, I think I'm gonna wait outside." I doubt that your fiance would force you into something you're not comfortable with.

Answer 16

It may be perfectly harmless to change with one another, but if I were working at a store and saw two people of the opposite s*x enter the same dressing room I would have asked them to please take separate dressing rooms. People might assume they are doing something other than changing in there.

Answer 17

Maybe its a sign that he feels comfortable around you. Take it as a positive thing.