She doesnt know im pregnant?

Question

im caitlin 16 and 4 months pregnant. my ex of two years doesnt want anything to do with me or the baby and his parents wanted me to get an abortion. im doing it on my own. ill be starting parenting classes, training to be a medical assistant, and working hard to be a single mommy. BUT hes been with her new girlfriend for a few months and she doesnt know im pregnant. my ex's friend told me my ex, jarred never told her, and she never mentioned it.. so he doubts she knows. should i tell her?! shes with a guy whos the daddy of my unborn baby.. whats she doing?! whats he doing?! im going crazy.. its so hard just to forget about it and let me date, and go off and stuff.. what should i do.. this is a toughie!

Answer 1

well i dont think u should qet involved. . .

shell probably think u are trying to ruin their relationship... and if he doesnt tell her... then thats his problem... u really shouldnt qet ur self in to it.. But shell find out...

and if it is really bothering u... then u should atleast warn her...

Answer 2

well maybe you should warn her before she gets prgnant too.

Answer 3

tell her right away she has the right to know this will effect her too.

Answer 4

Sorry to hear about your situation but you need to leave him alone and get on with your life it will be the best thing to do for you and your baby.  Dont mention anything to her she may not believe you and he will probably deny it. Some men can be jerks.  When the baby is born make sure you get child support from him and then she will know for sure it is his baby and he is a looser

Answer 5

okay, this answer is coming from a male...wait. my father was the biggest jerk in the world. cheated on my mother left and right. stole who knows how much from our family for his new friends  and couldn't have cared less how it affected my mother or me...just as long as he had s*x on demand and with his high standers (his high what) it was never hard to find someone.

here's my point, your ex obviously has no care for you or his unborn child. if you tell his new friend, he's going to make you out to be the ***** from h**l. still ticked off because things didn't work with you and he'll deny being the child's father and she will believe it all, so really what's the point in telling her. think about this, if you tell her, there's going to be a big confrontation and is that stress really what you and your child need. believe me, sooner or latter she'll find out what he's like.

what would i do? hire an attorney (there's always legal aid) and have parenthood established. when the dna came back that it was his child, i'd take every cent he had. i mean

, i'm talking medival like he's never seen before. just don't put yourself or child in the position where he can harm you. good luck!!!

Answer 6

no don't et involved

just focus on the well being of your soon to be baby and good luck

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Answer 7

i think u should b honest wit her and tell her she is goin to find out one day so why not now. advice........dnt mess with lil boys!!!!!

Answer 8

nope let it go.

you will only be blamed for the arguement and you will look like tha bad one. she will soon realise when she see's you with a big bump. then the s**t will hit the fan for him.

you know and i know, females are b1tches - she will say your lying, it isnt his, you want him back, bla bla bla.

so i think its best just to let things pan out and keep a dignified silence.

Answer 9

this man got you pregnant and will have nothing to do with your un born baby. shame on him! your a strong women to raise that baby all by yourself, so cutose to you! but to get back to your question yes tell this girl she has a right to know. I'm sure you would not want this same thing to happen to her. warning her would be good.

i hope you make a good desition

Answer 10

I think she has the right to know that she is dating scum. I would tell her if i were you. I wouldn't do it in a mean way or anything, just to let her know

Answer 11

I would tell her... She should know that her boyfriend is a jerk.  She will probably be naive and shrug it off, but at least you would have warned her.  Who knows, she could end up in the same situation as you.  What a loser guy!

Answer 12

well done yo ufor going it allone and all the luck in the world  what i would do is wrigh somthing on your ex facebook wall ie something like went for scan/check up to day and all ok though you would like to no as its youe kid to  then you are not the big bad wolf that is trying two breack them up( which is what ha may think if you tell he ) this way its subtle and im sure she will read his wall good luck hun and good on you enjoy your baby when it gets hear x*x

Answer 13

first of all you should of never did what you did what you did.your wayyy to young to be pregnant.that was probably the biggest mistake of your life. life is supposed to go like this, step 1, go to school  step 2,graduate (unprenant) step 3,go to college (find a good potential husband) step 4,graduate college with a good job   step 5,get married (unpregnant)     step 6,go explore the world with ur husband (unpregnant)     step 7,settle down, with a good job and relationship then have kids and start a family! but instead ur life will be like this            get pregnant at 16, your boyfriend who said i will love you forever   leves u when u find out ur pregnant, then u tell ur parents they scream at u and dont talk to u for 2 weeks,u drop out of school and dont graduate , dont go to college dont get a good job instead u work from 5pm to 4am as a stripper in a strip club while ur parents watch ur baby at their home ps .u will live with ur parents ur whole life never find true lov never graduate never go to college never get married never go on a honey  moon never explore the world    and you will be a good for nothin ho  sorry im just givin u a reality check honey . its the truth and u cant deny it goodbye have a nice life as a ho!!!! ha ahahahahahaahahah muhahahahhahahahahahhahahhahhhhhhh     loserrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr