Should I check?

Question

I used to be friends with a married guy but we don't talk anymore really. Well I still care for him very much and I think about him still and see him at the gym every so often where we met. Nothing or nobody can take away the feelings I have for him as a friend. Well I usually see him every weekend at the gym and during the week. I haven't seen him there in 2 weeks though and I am wondering if he's ok and doing fine still because its unusual for him not to go to the gym b/c he is always there. I thought about texting him and just telling him that I hope he is doing ok and everything. I am a very caring person and treat friends like this..... do u think I should text him and tell him that?

Answer 1

I believe not.  He seems to be attempting to establish some emotional distance between the two of you.

I suggest that you honor that attempt.

Answer 2

text him and ask if he is going to be in the gym next week because you want to see what your Max bench is.