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Should I confront my younger brother?

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A few nights ago, I had gone out to get ice cream and waterice or everyone since and I knocked on my brothers door to bring him his waterice he told me to hold on. Without thinking I just opened the door anyway and found him rubbing his friend's p***s on his bed. Without saying anything they had gotten up really fast and thanked me for the waterice. Ever since neither of us brought it up, but it feels really awkward when I'm around him. Should I contront him or give him time to say something? My brother is fourteen and his friend is sixteen.

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  1. I think you should let you parents know what is going on. It is a big difference between a 14 and a 16 year boy. If the 16 year old is dominant and making your brother perform unnatural acts, he should be confronted and even persecuted as a child molester.  


  2. I think you need to respect his space and just let him know if he ever wants to talk to you about anything that he can. And also that he can trust you to keep it between the two of you, and honor that. Experimentation is common and although 14 is a bit young it's better if he feels comfortable coming to you by you making that an option, then for him to fear you will tell on him over anything.  

  3. Say nothing.  You were in error to barge in.  There's nothing to "confront" him about.  Adolescent sexual experimentation between friends is common, normal and harmless.  At the most, you might remind him to be sure to lock his door in the future.  Or if he wants to talk about it, your door is always open.  Meanwhile, it's nothing to lose sleep over.

  4. i don't know ur age but i suppose that u r adult enough to have a talk with him..and to judge the situation for his own benefit...i wish u both luck

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