Should I go back to him?

Question

I left my husband's house because he fight 2 much, everything was wrong for him.If I go 2 see my kids he think I'm going to see my kids dad.Like he wants me to be only with him,feel like is trying to control my life.Left the house ,should I go back?

Answer 1

Why go back? Find someone who you can ENJOY your life with not fight all the time.

Answer 2

yeah go ahead and go back why did you leave you should have made him leave.You know if it;s only for the kids then well why not but they will grow up and leave then what?Try counseling.

Answer 3

no, if he is trying to control you in anyway you should just stay away.

Answer 4

NO!! let him know what he is missing.

Answer 5

Why would you?  You left now be smart and get out of the relationship all together and go on and live your life.  You do not need the jealousy and the manipulation and the fighting and abuse.  Go back for what, more of the same because that is all that you will find there.

Answer 6

So what's the problem, he was not happy that's

the bottom line...ask him if he is happier now.???

You probably are both the same.

Answer 7

Don't let me inter fearing your though.

But what prove do you have that he have change to be better? You should asked yourself, would you like to come back and live in the life that you ran away from? If you can stand for that type of life than why are you back, WHen are you decide to run  away again. You two may love each other you but may not mean to be together.

LIfe will be a bad investment if you keep running away. so you should think clearly before you make decision on this .

Wish you best of luck

Answer 8

No! s***w him and please GOD forgive you if that's the reason your kids are not with you already! you need to be with someone who accepts you and your children

Answer 9

You left for a good reason. Listen to it.A controller rarely changes. If you want to live a life of h**l, then go back.  

Answer 10

no don't go back move forward move on

Answer 11

Sounds to me like he's a control freak and it will only get worse as time goes on ,,,, Relationships or second marriages are one thing but blood is thicker than water ,,,, If he's doing this now then it's only going to get worse and over other things besides ,,,, If he were anywhere close to being mature then he should understand that you have important commitments out side the marriage that doesn't include him ,,,,I'm sure he knew this before he married you so what the h**l is wrong with him now ?,,,, If the shoe were on the other foot so to speak he'd certainly expect you to understand ,,,,

You have children and a duty to them too and they should be your first priority ,,,, That's just the way things are and if he can't see this and cope or deal with it then he's got a problem but he has no right or business giving you any grief because of it ,,,, Children are a treasure ,,,, You can always find another guy and one that understands your commitment besides ,,,,Guys like him come 2 cents per 100 ,,,, He's certainly not the only fish in the pond ,,,,

So you left the house ,,,, Good for you ,,,, Should you go back ?,,,,  No way unless you want to put up with his c**p again and possibly even more in the future ,,,, He's the one causing the problem here not you ,,,, Just get gone and stay gone ,,,, I don't see any kind of a happy or workable future for you with him at all ,,,, He wants to control and dominate you ,,,, No one should have to live with that or put up with any other kind of c**p either ,,,,

Stop talking to him altogether ,,,, There's nothing important to talk to him about regardless of whether he thinks so or not ,,,, Always keep the bottom line in mind and that is that he's a jerk and once a jerk always a jerk ,,,,

You made the right decision in leaving so stay gone and put this guy in your past and leave him there ,,,, Forget him but dont forget the lesson ,,,, Obviousely he doesn't seem to care if he's hurting you being this way ,,,,Don't worry about whether you hurt him or not ,,,, He'll worry about that enough for himself but he will never come to realize that he hurt himself and will always blame you for it ,,,, No biggy though ,,,, Don't even think about taking him back because you'll just put yourself right back in the same rutt or mess you're in right now ,,,,

You have enough drama in your life already ,,,,You need him and his unfair c**p like you need a broken leg ,,,,  

Luck to you chicky ,,,, Stick to your guns on this and don't talk to him anymore let alone let him talk you into coming back to him ,,,, He's never going to change ,,,, He's too selfish and self centered ,,,,    //