Should i forgive him?

Question

First time I was going to meet him at his work but he wasn’t there. He had a really S****y day so he had left an hour ago and his phone was dead all day.

Weekend of my birthday he invites me to a party at his house but I already had plans.

I can’t remember what happened the next time but things came up or something and he apologized saying we could go boating that weekend but I was bitter and said I was busy.

At some point we planned on hanging out on Sunday and he’d call with the details but he didn’t. So I called him about it when I was having a good day and he said he honestly just forgot. I appreciate the truth. Then we just talked for a while about all the fails and made plans for the beach that weekend. I said id call him this time. So I called and had to leave a message and again nothing back!

So after a month of trying I gave up and its been a little over 3 weeks since I last called. We’ve been friends for almost a year now and I know he’s pretty forgetful but maybe I shouldn’t miss someone who doesn’t seem to miss me.

Answer 1

You shouldnt miss someone who doesnt miss you back. If this guy is to die for and you want him you would have high tolerance thats all i can say. Theres many fish out there in the sea if you know what im saying. Some people never forget and would leave suprises of some sort maybe if he likes you a lot.  All im saying is there are better people out there. Hope w/e goes well =)