Should we get pregnant?

Question

My husband and i miscarried last year and we decided not to try again because it had been a surprise and we are not really ready. Ever since then i have been secretly hoping to accidentally get pregnant again on Birth Control (thats how it happened last time), but I haven't. Now he is joining the military and wants to have a baby, and even though I really want to be a mother in my heart, I don't think it would be a good idea right now. If it happens by accident then great, but I haven't stopped my pills. Any personal feelings or experiences?

Answer 1

You probably shouldn't do it if you don't feel ready because generally when a person does something they don't want to, it usually ends up making them miserable. Am I right? This is only my opinion, though. Do what you you want, talk to him, but don't let him force you into it. Besides, you have to remeber that he is joining the military. It will probably end up being you taking care of the child mostly, especially if he gets deported.

Answer 2

IM A MOTHER AND WORK WITH PARENTS AND CHILDREN AND IF U FEEL U WANT KIDS HAVE THEM I HAD MY FIRST CHILD WHEN I WAS 19 AND WAS NOT READY BUT IT IS THE BEST MISTAKE I EVER MADE THEN WHEN I HAD BABY NUMBER 2 I WAS READY AND THRILLED TO PIECES GOOD LUCK CHILDREN ARE WONDERFULL XXXXX

Answer 3

You'll never regret having a baby with your hubby. But, you may look back and regret not having one. Best wishes and Happy baby making.