Sick of rlationships?

Question

is anyone out there like me where youre sick of seeing people together yt it hardly ever happens to u. i think ive only had 2 gf's in my life but they were children stuff i dont count anything real dating till high school sophmore+ cuz freshmans cant drive. Theres this girl i like yetit seems like its never gonna happen cuz the only thing we have together is lunch and we used to talk a lot now we hardly gt the chance.so it really pisses me off and she might get a schedule change and we might not even have lunch it just doesnt seem like anythings gonna work. y do i have such bad luck and wat shuld i do, keep trying or just look somewhere else?

Answer 1

I think you just need to be patient. You usually don't find what you're looking for until you've stopped looking. Also pushing for something too hard can push it away. Once you're out of high school altogether is when you'll start really looking at your relationships more seriously. By then you'll feel about your relationships now the same way you feel about your current past relationships, children stuff. Right now you should be focusing on you. It's all about school & having fun.

I know seeing other people together can kind of bring you down when you feel kind of lonely that way, but the truth is that you are free. Free from drama, free from distraction, free to do as you please without having to answer to any potential childish girlfriend. I've always found that just when I was finally comfortable with myself & truly happy being single is when I'd meet someone. That someone could be the one you're waiting for. Don't rush for anything, or else you could rush into something with someone who could end up your worst nightmare(It always seems cool at first.) You'll find her, but for the time being just enjoy yourself. Good luck

Answer 2

HI!

                  MY ADVICE IS NOT TO GIVE into YOUR LONELINESS!

I KNOW ITS EASIER said THAN done!    WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT, YOU'LL MEET SOMEONE.  AND IT WILL PROBABLY COME WHEN YA LEAST EXPECT  IT TO.    

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Answer 3

you are like my clone...i know completely how you feel

ive had 1 or 2 "relationships" that meant nothing to me because we were childish and wasnt really dating

i want/desire/crave to have a real relationship with someone now that im older and starting my junior year

and i COMPLETELY get what you mean about the thinness, im a realllly skinny guy(6'1" 140 pounds) and i know it turns alot of girls off [once a girl actually had the nerve to tell me "you'd be hot if you werent shaped like a twig" =/ ]

your not alone....i guess all we can really do is move on and realize that there IS someone out there for us, we just havent found them yet

Answer 4

i'm 25 and i Finally found the love of my life...I didn't look for him or love it just happened..

Answer 5

You dont need to look for love it just happens. If you really like this girl call her email her message her anything to talk to her and get her attention and let her know you like her! Dont let a little thing of schedule change keep you two apart. If you both like eachother you will make the time to see eachother.

Answer 6

honestly talk to everyone, be very friendly. love happens at the oddest times.my boyfriend, that i have been with since 06 10 07., knew me because of a common friend. on a feild trip at the end of freshman year we talked and i really started to like him but i didnt think i had a chance because he had a girlfriend already that he was dating for 2 1/2 years. But he actually dumped her 3 days after meeting me and we started dating a week later. my point is dont look to just the obv people. and if you click with someone dont give up. listen to your heart, no matter what its always right