So i have a question?

Question

Can you be a L*****n even if you've never been with a girl ? my friends mom says i cant. and a ton of other people. well if ive never been with a girl... or a guy. whats that make me? haha nothing?

Answer 1

Yes, you can. You love only girls right?

Answer 2

Does a straight person have to be with a person of the opposite gender to be sure they're straight?

Of course not.

If you're attracted to girls only then you're a L*****n. Being with a girl doesn't confirm nor discount this.

Answer 3

absolutely....your sexuality is much larger than sexual acts. Your body physically enjoys women be it mentally, socially or laughing and hanging out in a specific erotic way. You want to sit next to a woman...look at her hair and lips....watch how she moves. To me its about sensuality....trying to get your specific answers to your sexuality is your own path...don't sweat it.  

Answer 4

   Im going to call you a L*****n who lacks sexual experience . Later you will be a regular L*****n .  

Answer 5

You absolutely can be a L*****n if even if you've never been with a girl. The next time someone says otherwise, just say, "Well then I guess that means that you can't be straight UNLESS you've been with the opposite s*x!"

Answer 6

yes. I was bisexual a few years before I had my first boyfriend.you dont need to have a girl friend or an ex to realize if you are a L*****n or not.

Answer 7

The other people have got it spot on with their answers.

I know for a fact that I am bisexual even though I've been with a girl but thing is I am WILLING to go there.

If you can imagine it than anythings possible :D  

Answer 8

yes! if you like girls and not guys you are a L*****n, it doesn't matter if you haven't been with one yet...

Answer 9

You do not have to have s*x with a woman to be a L*****n. If you are

physically and emotionally attracted to women then you are a L*****n.

L

Answer 10

thats how i was but having a partner has nothing to do with it..

u know what u want so dont let anyone tell u diffrent.

but u do need to experience being L*****n tho so go out there && get a gurll..

;D

Answer 11

I think everyone here hit the nail on the head:

You are a L*****n, but are still a virgin, which is great! Don't let anyone convince you that you should sleep with a guy in order to know for sure - that's a trap. MANY lesbians have done this and regretted it later.

The next time someone suggests that you aren't, like many ppl here have said, ask them if they knew they were straight before or after they slept w/ a guy.

Answer 12

What are you attracted to??

Girls or guys??

Yeahh you can still be L*****n if you re a virgin and if you have never been with one.  

Answer 13

Sure, you don't have to have been with someone to know who you are attracted to, I knew I liked girls at like...7?

Anyway, you have to be pretty sure before you label yourself like that.

Answer 14

I've been a L*****n ALL my life, and I never had s*x with another girl until I was in my teens.  It's your attraction to other girls/women that makes you a L*****n, not your actions.

If you're a girl who only likes other girls, I'd say you're a L*****n.

Answer 15

Thats just like saying you can't be straight if you've never been with a guy.

Lol It comes down to your a L*****n, if you only like girls.  

Answer 16

Of course you can. Being a L*****n doesn't mean you've had relationships with girls, it just means you're attracted to girls and there's the possibility (and hope) of being with a girl.

Answer 17

yes, that's like asking "can you be straight if you never have been with a guy"

of course. just because you have not found the right person does not mean you aren't a L*****n

(:

Answer 18

of course you can..cause you can be straight but never been with a guy b4

Answer 19

Sexuality is all about what you're attracted to sexually.  You haven't been with a girl, sure, but if you're finding them sexually attractive, you're bi / L*****n.