So is this a real friend?

Question

I (thought) i got really close to this guy that i had been friends with before, just not close. He helped me by cheating out his best friend by telling me he was a major player and he was only going to hurt me. and he didn't want to see me get hurt. (turns out he was right)

Well i noticed on myspace on his top i am no longer on his top. He was calling me his bestie and we text all the time. I saw his top and he hid it but you can still see by changing the page style. He kept changing his story on why i was not on there. He didn't get that i could still see it. He lied and said i was, then he said how can you see it, then he said he hid it so he wouldn;t have this problem. Then he changed yet again to he wasnt the one who changed it.

I just said bye cause i'm really kind of annoyed that he would lie. He never gave me a good reason.

Is this guy just friends with me out of sympathy because of what his best friend did? Or is he a real friend? I'm looking back at his top and i still am no longer in it..after this whole scene.

Answer 1

well hu cares if he put u in top

and now u don tok wif him..

leave it....

create a myspace with a fake person..and pretend that fake person like u like...

he always send u comments and this kinda..

u might make him jealous

Answer 2

why does it matter where you are in his myspace? forget(or another f-word) myspace! sounds like he didn't want to hurt ur feelings.

Answer 3

maybe his best friend  told him something about you and made him promise not to tell so now he is secretly mad at you

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Answer 4

People say who cares about MySpace and the top friends thing, but let's face it -- he's sending a message... of some sort.  

Sounds like he's not worth worrying about.  I would focus on other people.  Maybe so.  Maybe that WAS the reason... pity.  If so, who cares?  

Or maybe he feels you guys are getting really close and he's freaking out.  

Men are boys.  Just say "whatever" and move on.  Focus on other people for a while.  If you guys get close again, great, if not... then you'll know he wasn't worth your time and you did the right thing by not making a huge deal about him.  

Plus... men love that.  Don't feed his ego.  :-)

Answer 5

He doesn't sound like a real friend. Ask him for a proper explanation and if he doesn't keep a straight story try to let him go as a friend. You don't need people around who lie to you!  

Answer 6

Friends dont HURT you. Friends dont give FALSE hope. Friends dont LEAD YOU ON. Friends dont LIE to you.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

IMO.. and this is coming from a guy... you are nagging the h**l out of him. You can't seriously be bitching cause you got moved on a myspace top ten.. If you are then the problem isn't him it's you. Who cares where your at? Why I hate myspace.