So upset bout this?

Question

hi i have too go too private school next term :( i really dont want too go as it is strict and i dont thiink i will fit in, it is also all girls and i have a laugh wiith the boiz mostly and now i'll never get a boyfriend or have good friends like my old ones who have probly forgotten me now and im leaving school at 16 too become a hairdresser. so i'll never get a boyfriend and also never have a good group of friends like i used too a mixture of boys and girls who all got on and had a laff and i just left skool a few months ago without saying goodbye and i'll never see them again and i have too be stuck at this stupid private school were i don't fit in, and everything and im really upset about it what do i do? i know theres nothing i can do but i need some advice or something please??? and were will i meet such great friends again a mix of boys and girls if im at a private all girls school were i dont fit in at all. please help!

love Beckii ;o)

xxxxxx

Answer 1

Based on your spelling and grammar, I don't think you should drop out of school at all, and to let you know, you need a Grade 12 education or the equivilant to your high school diploma to become a hairdresser now.

And just because you'll go to private school doesn't mean you'll never have a boyfriend. Boys are not as important as an education is. You'll realize that soon after you leave school, if you do go through with it.

I've been there, where I left school early, and where I am today isn't the best. Yes, I am the happy and successful mother of 1 and one on the way and a very happy wife to my husband, but that's about all I am. I'm 22 and don't have my high school diploma yet. It is a struggle to keep a job, let alone find one. If and when I find a job, it's sheer luck.

Trust me, finishing school, at least until you have a high school diploma is the best thing you can do for yourself, if nothing else, no matter where you achieve that diploma.

Answer 2

Maybe a private school might be able to teach you better grammer and spelling. Just deal with it. Everyone has to do things they don't want- it's part of life. I'm sure you will find new friends, and school isn't the only place you can meet boys.

Answer 3

How do you know that you do not fit in? How? Are you 100 percent sure? How can you be sure if you haven't even tried.

Answer 4

What will you do? Suck it up. And you will meet new friends at your new school.

You'll never have a boyfriend? Oh please. You go to school to learn, not to find a boyfriend.  Your first priority should be getting an education, not boys.

Leaving school at 16 to become a hairdresser? How about staying in school till your 18, graduate and then go to hairdressing school?

I think you just need to accept it and move on. You'll have plenty of time to have a boyfriend. And as for your old friends, can you not keep in touch by phone or the internet?