Sooo..... Im Shy &......

Question

well im goin in to Highschool n i DONT WANNA B SHY!! and im soo outgoing n funny around ppl i kno soooo how can i break this? HELP PLEASE

Answer 1

Remember that people who do not know you won't know you're shy IF you don't act shy. So act like you know everyone and be funny and outgoing- they won't know any better.

Answer 2

Don't worry, I'm going to 11th Grade (Juniors right?) and I'm still shy and I get outgoing like that around my friends too...  Don't worry, people say "I'll grow out of being shy," but I don't think it matters.  As long as you're a nice person I don't think you'll have a problem.  I'm still shy, and probably still will be, and I don't have a problem.  Don't worry...

Answer 3

high school is the beginning of a new life! you'll have so much fun! I just graduated and Im so sad I can never go back! you'll definately meet many people who have things in common with you. Make sure you join clubs, sports, and get involved in a lot of things. Be yourself, and even if it scares you at first, if you get over that one awkward minute, you'll be fine afterwards! good luck and have fun!

Answer 4

There are no easy answers to this.  You just have to learn to relax.  Your shyness will keep you from getting into bad situations and making a fool of yourself.  I think once you are in  high school you will outgrow it.  Slowly.  Not all at once.

If you can relax around your friends you're lucky!  Having a few really good friends, close friends that you can talk to and trust and depend on, that's better than being 'popular'.  There are 'popular' people in high school who don't actually have close friends!

Good luck!