Spice up the sexlife?

Question

ok well 2 and a half years ,we both are ok with the s*x but yeah it does become the same old same old,was thinking of using the other hole if you no what i mean.has any1 tried it and if i brought it up the bf do u think he would be freaked out

Answer 1

He'll like the idea, go slow ,relax into it and use some lubrication..expect a little discomfort odd feeling (which should be surpassed by pleasure) if it hurts a lot or anything  back off and slow down..it will be great once it works,but you have to adapt to it,relaxing as you stretch to accommadate him and it will be a new sensation for you, its not like the "normal" one so he cant just cram it in there he has to go slow and let your body accept him, did I mention Lube ,LOL...that o*****e has two rings of muscle that both have to "yield' to allow something much larger than their used to passing thru them,and it may hurt or be uncomfortable at first,however the intensity and senseitivity of it will make up for that if you do it correctly (most woman have intense "O"'s during it) .once your used to it a lot of woman find they really like that way as a change (some even prefer it )..Just remember its all about pleasure anything that is unpleasant (within reason)for you physically or emotionally isnt worth doing.

Answer 2

i havent tried it personally but i have had a finger up there...lol...it feels good/odd !!! i dont think he will be freaked out by it...it depends...you know him - we dont! just mention it. enjoy..

Answer 3

what you mean you're thinking of buying a strap on and using it on him? yeah he *might* be a bit freaked out if you've only ever had vanilla s*x?

Answer 4

Yes i have tried it and it feels fantastic! My gf at the time brought it up and we decided to give it a try...we also tried different positions, and pouring whipped cream and chocolate sauce on us and having it licked off...that's amazing! It depends on how far your bf wants to go i suppose...or how far he's willing to go to please you.

There are so many different positions you both could try...or you could both try Oral s*x as well...how about just surprising him with something different and see what happens. Good luck!  

Answer 5

Lol, my misses didnt like using the other hole.

Answer 6

the only way to know is to ask him. you could try other things to spice things up, it depends what you are both comfortable with.lots of relationships tail off after the first few months when the s*x is great.

Answer 7

i have tried it but he brought it up not me.. it hurts at first but then its okay nothing great though.. just bring it up as a joke at first if you are unsure how he will react and see what he says lol x

Answer 8

Excellent question....I have been married for about 2 years to the same woman that I was married to for about  seven years before we were divorced for three. If you got that.

I found that this drives my wife crazy, but can cause infections if you pop back and forth from one gopher hole to the other so watch that. You need to be clean about it or else your girl will be making Dr's appointments (Experience)

Anyway, start with your finger and work your way up to the dog.

If you ask her....she will probably say no do to embarrassment.

So tell her that you would like this and don't give her the option saying no, but don't violate.

If you can be in the back door and use your fingers for the front and tickle the area in between...this will drive her nuts.

You need to be on your back with her on her back on top of you. Then reach around with your hand / fingers all while kissing her neck and telling her in her ear how hot and s**y she is.

Hope this helps and it's all true..she will stay for sure.

Answer 9

Agree with Gem good idea. I'm a guy an yeah I've done it to a few girls, only when its their idea though!! It can hurt sometimes though so make sure he is REALLY gentle and uses lots of lube, Vaseline ect. Also once he's pulled out it wont go back in again, guess it tightens up. Try everything once though, right? Have fun anyway.

Answer 10

I don't think he would freak out at all.  Most guys would kill for their significant other to offer that into their s*x life.  The best way to introduce it is for you to know the "right way" to do it, so you don't change your mind in the middle of it.  I was afraid it would hurt too bad.  So my husband and I looked online (I think it was actually Y!Answers) and figured out the best way.  Lay on your BACK (contrary to popular belief), LOTS of lubrication, lots of HUGGING and KISSING.  Even though it's wierd, just RELAX all your muscles.  My husband and I enjoy it.  We have been married for 2 1/2 yrs. as well, and I know exactly what you're talking about!  LOL!  Well, good luck and have fun!

Answer 11

Maybe just a little.Be prepared for it hurting initially,make sure you re relaxed.Good luck x