Suppose to be best friend?

Question

I don't know what to do anymore. My friend is always making fun of my clothes,my hair, my parents, that i don't have as much money, and that I'm not as good as her in things. And she always goes around telling people I'm copying her when shes doing it to me and saying stuff about me and i don't know what to do she is making people hate me.

Answer 1

Is this what you consider a "friend"? Cause I'd consider someone like that a B-word! Not a friend! Who does she think she is, talking to you like that? DO NOT LET HER TALK TO YOU LIKE THAT! Find new friends, and tell her to get the h**l away from you...

Answer 2

maybe she is not really your friend

Answer 3

if i was in that situation i would instantly know that someone like that is not even close to a friend.

that is a *****!

i would have kicked her ***!!

don't b friends with some1 like that.

u deserve better

Answer 4

she envys something about you.

talk to her and ask her why she is doing that.

if she confesses and says sorry,

give her another chance.

if she screws up again or denied ever doing that.

forget her. i know it seems hard since she's ur best friend.

but you dont need people like that around you.

Answer 5

friends don't take advantage of friends they comfort not destroy

Answer 6

and u call her even a friend???? stop listening to her, ignore her!!! she's kinda like mt old BFF. Get out of that "girl box" After I broke up with my old BFF, I felt freedom!!!

Answer 7

She's not a friend. get a new best friend and just let her keep hating on you. the only reason she saying that stuff is because you have something she wants or she never had.

Answer 8

She's defiantly not your best friend, or even your friend.

Yeah, she's probably jealous, and just wants to be brighter than you.

She's trying to bring you down, as low as possible.

My solution would be to find other good friends, and please don't listen to her if you know that everything that she says are just lies.

And also don't try to was revenge on her, it'll only make things worse.

Good luck :)

Answer 9

maybe she is slighty jeauloes or has nothing else to do with her life

Answer 10

Ditch the faker. I think you need to develop a little more self-esteem and stand up to her. We are not here to climb the ladder of success, or compete for the spot of "best in the world". We are here to live truthfully and be good to each other. You are here for a reason and it does not have to please anyone.

What you wear should never be an issue. Be proud of yourself and believe in yourself. Hair, makeup and clothes are superficial things that only superficial people care about. It is not her business, tell her that.

Having less money than someone else does not make you a bad person, but making fun of you for having less makes her a bad one. People with "less money" than her can't copy her. Let her say what she wants. Just be who you are and focus on your studies (not on stupid drama) and the people who love you for you and know who you are will always be there for you. The others don't matter.

Peer pressure sucks, I know. But if you're patient, it'll get better and if it doesn't, at least you're not worried about anyone else. Be good, give when you feel like giving and don't say mean things to anyone about anyone and you should be okay. Eventually people will see you for who you are and they'll know she's not all that.

You can also ignore her. She's not cool but thinks she is. She will eventually learn. But for now, teach yourself. Practice all good things and you should be fine. Like I said, the others don't matter.

Answer 11

wow she is one jealous little ******!! you are probly prettier than her hehe so she's tryin to tear you down!! just ignore her, dont talk to her, and ignore what people say about you for a while. just be confident and it will blow over

Answer 12

Well i read the other answers and i need to say that you and some people who read this,, might have a point, but if she is a "BEST FRIEND" or even has been a good friend,, that what is happening to her that she behaves this way if she does..

It is so true (i am guilty of this in the past ) TO overreact, over respond, and take a little situation and make it so much more more c**p than necessary.

Entertain the thought that your "best friend" IS going thru some changes, problems or pain that she cant deal with and so she complains, and stays busy with things, she creates.. to avoid dealing with her own pain.\

When she makes fun of your clothes, is it really that terrible>? if you are best friends, you should be able to communicate ideas honestly,, and laugh and joke about it,, and maybe some things she says are true in her mind,, "so what".. PEOPLE AFFECTIONATELY tease one another, you know that,

and when she is making fun of your p arents, or whatever, did u hear this yourself? OR you were told a second hand story.. that when it  gets around it is totally different from what was meant.

BEST OR GOOD FRIENDS, TRUST ONE ANOTHER WITH THE TRUTH, THE SECRETS, AND SHARE PROBLEMS, ETC, have you been a great best friend or does she feel abandoned and let down? THIS would be a reason why she is acting this out,,   I do not think she is trying to make people hate you,, maybe she wants something you dont offer right now,, attention, or respect or something,, but maybe since her needs (as a close friend are not getting met) WITH  YOU,,, and she is hurt, and so to have people angry at you, it is accomplishing what she feels,, but whatever it is,,

This is the time, and opportunity as a best friend to rise to the occasion and prove what best or good friends do,,is listen to her and find out what is really bothering her,, move forward in your friendship not OUT,,

I SAY THIS TO YOU WITH SINCERE OPINIONS

what would you want to say to her if she suddenly died, and you were looking down at her laying in a coffin>? WOULD THE PETTY STUFF MATTER? WOULD YOU NOT JUST REMEMBER THE CLOSE LOVING BOND AND GREAT MOMENTS YOU SHARED,, ? i blew it with the best friend i ever  had,, and when i looked  him up to say im sorry he had been deceased for five years, and i realized how i acted so childish and self centered and made a BIG thing out of misunderstandings,, i hope you do not make the same mistake,  good luck.. and if she outgrew you,, and if she is really doing what you say,, then hold up your head, be a lady, with poise and maturity.. and be kind and gracious in all matters with her and this will give her no room to speak badly of you..

Answer 13

girl i no what you mean

i no how to fix the problem too

slap her believe me this just happend to me but my friend has less money then me

but all they want to do is fit in so you have to fit her nose into her face!

show her that she cant do that stuff

(i am really not a bad person but when somebody talks about my family i get mad)

Answer 14

stop being her friend, tell her straight up 'what did I do to you to deserve the way you treat me!?' and see what her response is.

I had the same problem when I was in 6th grade. there was this girl who was one of my best friends but then all of a sudden, a rumor started going around that i liked her boyfriend. she asked me if it were true and if i cared and i just said 'i dont care if they're talking about me or not, its not like its true.' but after that she started doing the same things your friend is doing. at times she would be my best friend, but at other times she would be my best bullie! she used to call me fat and ugly and stuff like that. but in seventh grade, she eventually apologized because she was the fat, ugly, bad clothes wearing girl that everybody hated. and i was the popular, skinny, pretty girl everybody wanted to be. I had lost 40 lbs., gotten contacts, my teeth were straighter (even though i had never had 2 wear braces), and I had gotten enough money to go out on a shopping spree.

So what im trying to say is, dont worry! it will all blow over and if you really work hard at it, you will be the one to laugh last ;)