Thinking of my husband?

Question

I'm thinking about my husband when i say this because i do love him

I'm having a baby i think my husband is just to over protective right now

he wont give me the room that i need. that's why i want to go to a shelter leave get my own apartment he is in the military this is our first baby i understand he is happy but don't i need space? i told him this so now i feel i just need to leave till the baby is born.

Answer 1

Why would you leave your husband? Ye she is in the military but stay with his family or something, there is no reason to leave just because you are pregnant. Sure you need some space but if he is in the military you will get that space. You need to lean on him for support and he needs to be there to comfort you. Leaving him will do no good but stress you out and the baby needs his father, stay, get used to it girl! Take care!

Answer 2

What is wrong with you? Go see a doctor...one for your mental issue.

Answer 3

u need space for what, u are married hun, there's no space when u said "I DO", you are in a partnership for life, that means No space hun, so get over it, and be there for your hubby!

Answer 4

if he is in the military then you should have enough space in the world because they barely be home.  

Answer 5

I fear you have mental issues. But then again most women do. Seek mental medical attention.

Answer 6

He is just trying to protect you and his child. Do you get anytime to yourself? Tell him you need it.

Answer 7

You may not need help now, but you will soon.  If you have a husband that is interested at all about your pregnancy you have something you shouldn't cast off without consideration.

Do you love him? If so, tell him to back off a bit, and let him know why.  Unless there is some danger to the child or some other extenuating circumstance, You are nuts if you separate at this point.

You are going to get Big, Swollen, ungainly, tired, and a mess of other unfun things.  If he is overprotective, he might also be helpful.  Relax and put him to work.  You have a lot of things to do before the child arrives, so have him take care of them. At the very least, have him paint the baby's room.  

Get used to thinking about the child rather than yourself.

Answer 8

I'm sure he's feeling a little anxious about you having a baby..I mean this is the first baby for both of you and if he's in the military, he won't be seeing too much of you or the baby... you can understand why he's being so protective. He wants to know that He's taking care of you and the baby but may be coming off as overprotective...just talk it out...there could be some fears or anxieties on his part and this could be his way of dealing with it.

I will feel sad for him if you leave because of this...He's just trying to make sure he's doing his part as a husband and soon to be father in caring for you and the baby.

Answer 9

I am sorry but you are not making any sense to me. How can you be thinking of anyone but YOURSELF when you say that you need space? If you need space, then so be it. But don't pee on his carpet, & then tell him it's raining.  

Answer 10

Don't leave your husband unless you're not coming back. It's probably just hormones from the pregnancy or something...but don't do that unless you're absolutely sure.  

Answer 11

You're probably going thru emotions being that you are pregnant. Your husband is probably a good guy and though you may think you need space, he's probably just making sure that everything goes well with his pregnant wife. He's probably got a good heart and is just making sure his lady is comfortable so that everything works out well with your pregnancy. Talk to him and let him know that you're feeling overwhelmed and you feel the pressure. Let him know what you need, but don't go live a shelter or nothing. Just take more time to yourself and you will begin to miss him more often instead of feeling like you need to be away from him.