This question is for all couples?

Question

would you be ok if your partner ( g*y or straight) told you he was an adult baby and said he or she wanted to be diapered and have you be their mommy or daddy. If you truely loved this person would you do it

Answer 1

I'm an adult baby so I completely understand your partners thought process. What they find attractive is basically the fact that they can be so helpless and not have to take any responcibilty for anything. Essentially its a comforter. Childhood is associated with innocence. Because they are an adult baby this does not mean they are strange in the head or find children attractive or anything like that. When you think about it its perfectly normal to want to be cared for and looked after. What you need to do is devise a comprimise with your partner.You could discuss how often you do this with them. Maybe limit them to something like once a week. You could also say that they are allowed diapers but no dummy,or bottle or something like that. The good news is that it can go away. Once I told my partner he was a bit surprised but after a while he got to understand when I explained how it made me feel. We say that I can be babied every so often but I am not allowed a buggy, a dummy, or a bottle. I completely understand how hard it is to come to terms with but honestly, it will make your partner feel amazing if you do it for them.If you don't feel comfortable doing this for your partner you need to tell them this. They will understand. I really hope it goes well for you.

Answer 2

It depends.

If you love them, and think you can do it, then you should.  Regardless of other people's knee jerk reactions on here, there's nothing wrong with being an adult baby.  It's a fetish, and while it's not a common one, there's nothing wrong with it.

Part of being a good partner is being sexually open minded, what columnist Dan Savage refers to as being "good, giving, and game" - up for new things, or for doing things FOR THEM.  There's something which goes along with this though - they have to be willing to do things for you.  Maybe you really want a massage, or oral s*x, or just for them to clean the d**n kitchen so you don't have to.  Make sure this isn't a one-sided deal.

If you don't think you can do it, also say so.  And be prepared for the consequences and other options.  They may wish to seek this sort of activity outside your relationship, or break up entirely.

If you'd like to learn more about adult babies, I can suggest a great novel about them to you. It's called "Auntie Eva's Boarder" by Mako Allen.  (I know lots about it, because I'm the author.)  You can read a nice big chunk of it for free up on Google Books, and you can buy it lots of places.

Good luck.
--mako