To all ex-virgins out there?

Question

Do you wish that you would have waited until you were married before doing the deed!

(I am glad I didn't & I only had 2 sexual partners) I got married september last year.

Your views ......................

Answer 1

I am happy with my decision, I was 17 when I lost mine, but I feel it is the right person. To me thats all that matters, if you think she or he is the right person for you, then why wait- its that special thing that you want to share with your significant other.

Answer 2

No, but I sure wish that I hadn't slept with quite so many people.  I also really wished my first time had been special and not some thing that happened because I was drunk. I think it is good to have some sexual experience before marriage and I'd definitely want to know what my future hubby is like in bed before tying the knot!!!!  I do believe though that s*x should be between two people that love each other and not just with anybody like what I did way too much!

Answer 3

I'm married for the 2nd time - If I could have met him 1st - definately!!!

Answer 4

First of all congratulations for your marriage! And yes, I think that i should've waited a little longer. But other than that the person is amazing!!

Answer 5

to be honest - no i don't think i wood have wanted to wait until i got married - s*x is special - but to be in a relationship with a man who doesn't satisfie ur needs does put pressure on a relationship.

s*x isn't everything. however a gr8 relationship connects in every way physical sexual emotional etc, if one of those factors are limted then it can cause problems.

if i got married to a man - who didn't no where it goes or wat to do or anything cause he was a virgin thats fine - u can teach him - however if he wasn't a virgin n had his preferences in wat to do with a woman n it doesn't match u all u can do is tlk to him n say i like it this way or that way however its more likely he won't pay much attention n ur stuck with a man who cums quickly or can't satisfie ya.

n even if ur a virgin / ur first time - (u have nothing to judge it against) but u do no ur body  / wat feels good and wat hurts and if someone can't control themselves or how they please u then ur obviosuly gonna be able to tell.

However i wouldn't be shuting out for virgins to bang the next guy out there - ppl sud wait until there ready - but for me wen i was 16 i was ready - i was ready to deal emotionally n understand my self n mmy body to be aware of everything. and i have no regretts or wood change it for the world.

so to be honest people have preferences n some ppl will wait n some won't.

i presonally glad i didn't n now i no wat i like n need in all areas for a real relationship to work.

Answer 6

h**l no.

Answer 7

I was 17 yrs old and really loved the guy I lost my virginity to, but bc of our age difference things did not work out for us. It was been 8 and a half years and he has since passed away due to medical issues and I still think about him n our first time together. So to answer your question no, I do not regret waiting until I was married!

RIP John (I love you!)

Answer 8

did not wait for marriage, but i have only been with my hubby with no regrets

Answer 9

nope Im sure glad I didnt wait as Im 31 now and nowhere near being married so feel Id have deprived myself out of something wonderful!!

xx

Answer 10

I am glad that I did wait.

Answer 11

I have had only had one sexual partner, we did not wait until we got married and I am fine with the fact that we didn't.  (I was my husbands first also)

Answer 12

fudge no

Answer 13

I wouldn't so much say that I wish I had waited untill I was married but I will say that I would have preferred not to have given in and had s*x when I did and with the boyfriend I had then if you get what I mean, lol.

Answer 14

i was 14 and i think i made a big mistake because my mum ended it when i told her.

But yer the whole marrige thing seems romantic, but this generation is all about growing up to fast and not thinking ahead