Toilet training?

Question

ok this is really embarissing, plz dont be mean i just turned 13. anyways i had a bladder problem cause im really small for my age and ive had to wear diapers for over a year and my mom is trying to train me again but weve been trying for ages and i just cant do it and my mommy gets mad help plzzz!!! plz dont be mean

Answer 1

If you have been in diapers for over a year then what did you do before then.    You say you're small for your age and that's the reason but weren't you just as small over a year ago.   Did your bladder shrink in the last year?   Did you shrink?   Details please because I can't understand what you are saying and how come you use to not wear diapers but now you have been for over a year.

ETA:  This would be different from toilet training toddlers because their biggest problems is getting them motivated to use the toilet and remembering to keep going to the toilet anytime they feel the urge.    Once they could do those 2 things they're potty trained.  What makes toilet training difficult for you?   Is it just very hard to hold it in?   I have stress incontinence.    This means that if I cough heavily or vomit then I'll leak small amounts of urine.    If this is an issue where you simply can't hold it in then I think you need to speak with someone in the medical field who can help you.    Parents can motivate their kids to use the toilet but they can't take of the medical issues.    Have you considered putting this question in another category like "Other-Health, or Men's Health" or "Other-Diseases" .   Somebody there may be better able to answer your question.

Ask your parents if you can visit with a urologist?    That's a doctor who specializes in problems like this.

Answer 2

this is really straight wired i think why? man your mom should train you as much as possible go see a doctor and why? i'm in diaper still?

Answer 3

im so sorry! i have never been through something as bad but my friend has. She has worn diapers all her life and she still persists on getting out of them. You should too! You're only 13,  you've got a whole life ahead of you. Keep on trying. Don't just rip of the diaper one day, and say, "I'm through." Slowly and gradgily start taking it off for an hour or so. I'm sure this will help. It seems as if this condition may never go away but i'm sure it will. Good luck with the diaper and i'm sure it will come off soon

Answer 4

How horrible for you!.

Don't be embarassed - your problem must be medical.

Just say to your frustrated mum, " I am trying my best mum, I know you find it difficult too, but you don't know what I am going through".

Her anger comes from frustration for you.

To have such a problem at 13 must be a nightmare - surely you need some sort of of operation? or at the worst a catheter?

Be insist ant on further doctor appointments. You are old enough to voice your opinions - tell them the problem is not getting solved and that you really need further help!

Don't get too down, get insistent!!. Good luck.