Treats Strangers Betther Than Family.....?

Question

What would you say if your bf treats you really good and your son good with gifts, going out and so forth.

My bf has a toddler nephew and he never treats him out or gives him gifts at all, whereas me and my son he will totally, which I find funny.

And when I invite my bf's sister and nephew over, he'll make sure we get food first before his own family.

Bf's sister and nephew has stopped coming over after he put her down a couple of times, or put her in very uncomfortable situations.

My bf will even treat my friends who he doesn't even know and buy them food and their children's food.

I find this very strange. He'll ignore his sister and little nephew whose 5. And the nephew is so sweet.

What is up, and should I be cautious about him????

Answer 1

He's getting s*x from you, or thinks that he will.  That is the explanation.

If you marry him and he thinks you're "in the bag" he'll treat you the same way.

Second question today on the same subject.

Must be contagious.

What does he have to gain from strangers - nothing - from you - s*x.

Again, once you are family, and s*x is expected - you sill get the same treatment.

Answer 2

people are usually nicer to friends than family because family won't leave us for being douches to them, we're used to each other and love each other.

If, however, you marry him, like said before, you will become family so that is something to be cautious about.

Answer 3

It's not strange..A lot of people are mean to their family, yet SUPER SUPER nice to strangers.  That's how truly mean people and abusers hide themselves so well.

If you marry this guy, you will become FAMILY one day and what if he starts being mean to you? Then, he will be nice to other strangers that aren't you.

EDIT: He GAINS something by leading people on to think he's nice.

If he was mean to you, you wouldn't date him right away right? His niceness lured you in.

Most mean people aren't going to be mean right away..Everybody is nice at first.