Trust issues? Help Please?

Question

We've been together for 4 months now and i really love her so much and she loves me too but because i was hurt in the past by other girls i have a hard time trusting her. I think it is also because i've seen her lie to her ex boyfriend when i was friends with her back then but she didn't really like him that much. And i also keep having dreams where she betrays me or dumps me for someone else. How can i get over this and trust her more?

Answer 1

Talk to her  

Answer 2

Hello

Well I think you need to have confidence in yourself and trust her... If there is no trust in a relationship the relationship is nothing... is all up to you to trust her and to communicate better with her so you can tell her what you feel and what you think :) If she choose you is because she likes you and only you so just get over that :)

Best of luck <3

Answer 3

this is not an absolute because I do not know the girl you are talking about, it is just a most likely scenario. you say she lied to a former bf, but she didnt like him much, lying to him was a sign of her character and a decision she made in how to handle something. if she didnt like him very much it was needed for her to end the relationship, the whole purpose of being in a relationship is we match up with the person we are with, not just lying/cheating because we are not fully happy in being with them. maybe she has grown up from that and learned, but you will only find out by having a good talk with her, and dont just hear the words, look into her eyes, the truth is there if you know how to look for it, good luck, I have definately been where you are, trust is very hard for me now.