Two Guys. . . .?

Question

Well I have this friend that I really like and I think he likes me too except he has a girlfriend and recently he told me that if he were to see me with another guy it would drive him crazy. So two days ago I gave this other guy my number and we've been talking and he seems like a really nice guy. So what am I supposed to do if he asks me out? I don't want to lose my first friend because of the other and I don't want the new guy to be mad at me. . . I would go out with him but what about my friend, would he think I betrayed him? Then again does he really expect me to wait for him? Any Ideas???

Answer 1

honey you only have one friend and that would be yourself. no true friend would ask such a selfish thing of you to be alone while they have the adacity to date whomever they want. wake up babygirl and open your heart and mind to change.

Answer 2

If maried to the guy stay with him, if not, when were you told only one at a time.  Go out have fun;if the other doesn't like it so what.  Maybe the other one will step up first next time.

Answer 3

If someone has a girlfriend, it is unfair to get into a relationship with him unless you don't mind sharing.  Honor their relationship.

If a guy has a girlfriend and also wants you not to date, he is asking you to do something he is not willing to do.  Why would you want to be involved?  What pleasure are you getting out of this situation?  Are you going to sit around when he is going out and having fun?

I know some guys are very cute.  You really want to be with them.  But, watch out for the guy who is willing to mess around with another girl (you) while he is supposedly in a relationship with someone else (her).  I promise he will do the same to you.

That's why to see letters from women who have 2 kids with a guy and living with him, working outside the home, and caring for the house and everyone in it, and still not married when they want to be.  

You'll have enough excitement in your life doing things the right way to want to look for grief that's sure to come your way if you listen to this boy.

Answer 4

I think I would refer back to the old saying, " a bird in the hand, is worth two in the bush" if you get my drift.  Don't settle for "waiting" for this 1st "friend" to get single and ask you out.  He's having fun w/ his girlfriend, so go out w/ the 2nd guy and have fun.  I wouldn't want to date someone who was hitting on me while they were committed in another relationship.  My mom always said that if a guy doesn't like you enough to end his ongoing relationship and then ask you out, he's not much of a choice for a serious relationship, period.

Answer 5

mmm..

the fact that your fren no 1 has a gf is wuite a turnoff,

i mean he's attached&youre still carrying on tt kinda r/ship w/ him.

it's nt fair for his gf dont you think,

cuz it's somehow like cheating even tho you say youre jz frens cuz the feelgs you both are having are more than frens..

&you meetg this fren no 2,

i dont think no 1 has the right to say whether you cn go out w/ another guy or nt cuz he himself is seeing someone &you both dont belong to eachother

so i dont think it's wrong for u to go out w/ guy no 2.

you said he's nice, go for it (:

dont waste on guy no 1,

he's attached.

try putting urself in his gf's shoes.

it's nt a nice/good feelg..