Um...guy problems...help? 10 points?

Question

I've liked this guy for about 10 months now, and about 4 months ago, he started going out with this girl. Before that though, he kept trying to make me like him even more (like that's possible). Like one time when we were walking home from our bus stop, he stopped all of a sudden and I think he was expecting me to trip and accidentally hug him or something, because he couldnt think of anything to say when I didn't trip. But I didn't realize it then. I just realized it recently, but now it's too late because he has a girlfriend. I heard they're still together, and now I'm getting a little scared that they're never going to break up. We're going into 7th grade this year. And my crush has a twin brother, and i recently started having a very minor crush on his brother, too. My crush's brother is single, but one or two of my besties like my crush's brother. Sorry if this is confusing, I just don't know what to do anymore because this whole crush-has-a-girlfriend thing is making me sad and I'm not sure if I should go any farther with his brother because i don't wanna lose my besties over a guy...but i still really like my crush as like a BGF (best guy friend) AND a crush..help me!!!

Answer 1

dude. thats what happend to me. ive liked this guy since 4th grade! im in 9th. and hes liked me(i just found out) and he started to go out with this girl and totally ignore me. and they went out for 6 months. and he broke up with her. and now were all flirty flirty. just wait. theyll break up. be patient. i was and now im all flirty flirty with my guy.

Answer 2

I personally think you need to give other guys a chance. Some times relationships don't work out, and maybe sooner before you knowit they might just break up there is always hope but there is never hope if you don't try. Please don't try to make him jealous that is so not the right thing to do. If things don't work out just try to find another guy.

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Answer 3

the brother thing is not that bad-unlikely your relationship with the other brother ( the one you like) will end up being "the one" anyway- so relax and enjoy having fun relationships- you are stressing way to hard for your age- it should be fun- his loss:)