Unattractive new girl at school?

Question

I'm in High School, and I noticed that there is this new girl at our school, shes over weight and i guess unattractive, and she always sits by herself and everyone makes fun of her and she has no friends what so ever. I was thinking that I would befriend her because i don't think anyone deserves the cold shoulder from the whole school. I am popular and I'm worried that she might think I'm being fake and just being mean when I try to talk to her, so how do I go by doing so? Should I just go up to her and start talking? Help.

Answer 1

Why not, you should go up and talk to her. The reason why most people at my school  are popular is because they are nice. I am pretty popular too and you know how i made all those friends by talking to people.

you can never have too many friends

Answer 2

Just be genuine. That is really mature and kind of you :D

Good luck ^^

Answer 3

well its her falt if she thinks your being mean when your the only one being nice to her! go in with a peacfull heart and hopefully she can find her way!

Answer 4

that would be really sweet of you!

Answer 5

I think you should just go start talking to her :) She'll probably think you're really nice instead of mean and fake.  

Answer 6

just go sit next to her, and talk! I am sure that she won't get mad or anything, she will be very happy of making a new friend since she doesn't got any friends in school. If you didn't do anything mean to her before, I guess she will be very happy :)

Answer 7

if you werent fake you wouldnt have to ask yahoo answers what you should do.

Answer 8

Yes, dude. Walk upto her and start being her friend. You will be more popular then. God bless you.

Answer 9

just start talking to her. good for you ! most people wouldnt do something like that.

Answer 10

yes just act like you truly want a friend and your talking to her to get to know her not just because you feel sorry for her.. you know what i mean? haha but thats really nice of you to think of her

:)

Answer 11

just be friendly..like at lunch go up and say something like " hi do you want to sit with us" or "can we sit with you" then just talk about things you both like, you know girl stuff like nails and hair and clothes..i mean well if she likes that..just keep on smiling!

Answer 12

just start talking to her and sitting by her.. f.u.c.k everyone else.. who cares what people think...

Answer 13

thats really big of you. good for you! go talk to her, looks aren't everything you know.  

Answer 14

Hi! Im a girl just using my brothers account.. anyways. You go ahead! Sit with her talk to her and then people will look at you thinking "OMG! She actually sitting with an unpopular girl!" But then they will copy you! As of the weight just help her with her self-esteem! ♥

Answer 15

Just go start talking to her.  You will never find out what she's like until you get to know her.

Answer 16

that's a really nice thing you're doing.

and yea, you should go up to her and tell her that you noticed how she is always by herself and that you would like to be friends with her. so she won't be lonely.

peace.love.happiness.

Answer 17

Good job girL! :)  

Answer 18

You't got it right. Just go up to her and start talking. I don't know how many times I had to change schools when I was growing up. Every time got more painful.

Answer 19

Maybe break the ice by asking her a question about school work or something, then just start talking and stuff.

Way to go being nice. :)

Answer 20

Hopefully you can find one thing you like about her her shirts her shoes or even if its the color of her hair tie....tell her you like it and make an effort to smile at her after that for around to weeks.(but only keep doing it if shes smiling back...if not try again later) and then talk to her some more...get her number and then invite her to meet you at the mall to get "makeovers" together at the makeup counter. that way if you see anyone you know you can pretend your by yourself if you get embarrassed. work on it from there. id love to know how this turns out! good luck♥

Answer 21

Just go up and be genuinely nice to her. Do no compliment her on anything that she could teased by later. But if you like her shirt say so. But also just as your passing her in the halls say hi, or whats up. Try to get her facebook, myspace, or phone # and contact her outside of school. It might take some time, but let it, it will probably be worth it

Answer 22

Really, all you have to do is go up to her with a smile on your face and ask to sit with her. Talk to her about the cafeteria food, her classes, her nice hairdo, something like that. Just small-talk. You'll get to know her, and she will probably feel ALOT better now that she has a friend, or at least someone she can talk to. Introduce her to your other friends, and who knows, she might be your next best friend!

Answer 23

AW that is really nice of you to do that for her.

I did some what the same thing you are doing there was a girl in are school and everyone made fun of her and when you try to be friends with her she thought you wear going to make fun of her b/c that is how every one was to her and i ask her if she wanted to hang out with me and my friends at the dance and she ask why and i said b/c no one should be by them self at the dance and she did hang out with us and all of my friends wear very nice to her.

I also did something very nice for someone else he was a guy and he was over weight and we had a bad snow storm that day and we had a delay and the ground was very wet in the school and he fall and every one was laughing at him and i went up to him and ask him if he need help so i help him to the table and every one said that was so nice of me to do that for him.

But what i am saying is people that get made fun of allot really want good friends and what you are doing is really nice i would just go up to her and sit by her and start talking to her and if she ask why you are talking to her that when you say you really seam like a very nice girl and i would like to be one of your friends and have her meet your friends also that way she can tell you are not being mean!

Answer 24

Thats a great idea! I agree, no one should ever have a cold shoulder. It's a kind thing to do. I did something like this in my first year of highschool, and the girl turned out to be my best friend for about eight years now. I would go up to her, and just start talking, ask her to come hang out. If she think that your trying to be mean, even though your not, thats her opinion, but you can show her, by keep trying that your not trying to be mean.

Hope i helped :)

Answer 25

Wow First of all you dont need to insult her like that she she doesn't need a friend like you but if you do just try and talk to her if she needs help around school or if she needs help with work or tell her you like her hair a total conversation starter.

Answer 26

just dont go up to her with your friends, may seem intimidating to her

and always have a friendly face and tone of voice, but not chirpy, which sounds fakish

btw its good that you are trying to be nice unlike this one other conceited girl a while back on y!a (being afraid of what others would think of her for letting an unpopular "unattractive" girl sit with them, and trying to turn her down)

you may actually find that shes fun to be around too:)

Answer 27

if this girl is really getting the cold shoulder from the whole school---i dont think she'll carewhether or not you being mean wen you talk to her any way. you should try and talk to her tho becauz if you do more people will talk to her 2. if you're being kind and reaching out to sum1 in need good things will always happen :) good for you for wanting to do the rite thing :D

Answer 28

Sit next to her at lunch. Chat casually on several occasions to see if you will get on. You might have loads in common or nothing. Don't befriend her out of pity, not sure that is a healthy friendship. If she is new then she will meet people as it takes time.  

Answer 29

that would be awesome of you to do that. that girl doesnt deserve to just be ignored, shes new and probably really shy. try just sitting with her at lunch and talk to her, just so she has some company. maybe since your popular, more people will do it too. and try to be friends with her. and talk to her nicely and get to know her, and have her get to know you. dont like sit there and be like HEY!!!! WHATS YOUR NAME?!?!?! cause that seems obnoxious so just come over and be like "hey my name is....." and carry it on from there. good for you for doing that by the way.