Venus in Aries... am I doomed?

Question

My Venus is in Aries -- which for those of you who know a bit about astrology, means I tend to veer in different directions with more than one mate. Not that I'm unfaithful -- I'm very loyal! I just can't settle for one guy. The moment I'm with one, I'm looking at another or just finding faults with the first and off to the next. It's so frustrating, and I tend to look to this and wonder if it's in the stars that I may not be able to settle for "the one" in my lifetime. What's your input? Anyone else with this setup, experiences on it?

Answer 1

Dudee.

You are SO not doomed.

You keep your interests open.

I do too, but see, I have Venus in PHRICKIN VIRGO.

I tend to be SUPER DUPER PICKY.

But its really good honesty for you, because you keep a wide range of guys.

And you know, just don't be expecting too much out of the guys.

The ones that you dont expect to be interesting are really interesting! Be nice!

Answer 2

When you fall in love you impulsively fall totally in love and commit yourself loyally to preserving that relationship.  However, afterward you begin to step back and take a second look to scrutinize all parts of the relationship: communication, caring, security, longevity, annoyances, etc.  From this point, you would need to review how your other planets aspect Venus in Aries for further information on your love and relationships.....

Answer 3

I also have Venus in Aries and when i was younger i was the same way but now that i am older i am seeing the value of being with only one person and also you have to meet the right person. Maybe you just havent been in love before:)

Answer 4

Don't have that setup, but it might be worth looking into the concept of 'polyamory' and different relationship dynamics. Fitting yourself into a traditional one-boy/one-girl framework might cause you a lot of problems in the long run.

Other options exist. Do some reading.  

Answer 5

If your Venus is in Aries, you thrive on initiating new relationships, and don't shy from making bold propositions. There's an innocence to your invitations that softens the reserve of more guarded types. Your lust for life is contagious, but not everyone can live at your pace. You guard your independence, and would never do or say anything for the sake of the relationship. Others respect you because you stay true to yourself no matter what. I would not say you are doomed at all, maybe misunderstood.

Answer 6

I know a couple that have been together for a very long time - and BOTH of them have venus in aries. They are very faithful to one another, trust me on this one.

Now, it is true that venus in aries will lead you to go all over the place in more shallow relationships and tire very easily of your partners. But once you decide, truly and honestly, that you want to be with a person - your soulmate - you will settle with them and I think loyalty will come easily to you when you truly respect the person you're with. I have heard this of aries, and based on my own experience, this does seem to be true.

Just make sure in any relationship you have that you want to see go long term your partner must not be possessive of you in any shape or form and you must have plenty of time to yourself. This will be vital in dictating whether or not you can stand being with someone who you really love for a long time.

So don't worry, you're not doomed at all. Enjoy yourself for now and just rememeber to be mindful of people's feelings in your relationships!

You have plenty of potential to settle with the person you really love once you meet that person.