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WHAT SHOULD I DO!?PLEASE HELP =/?

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YESTERDAY I DIED MY HAIR BLACK AND SINCE IM LIGHT SKIN I LOOKED PALE AND I FEEL REALLY INSECURE I THINK IM UGGLY NOW

=[ AND SCHOOL IS ALMOST IN 2 WEEKS ..SHOULD I JUST RE DYE IT TOMORROW WITH A PROFESSIONAL ?? BECAUSE I DONT FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH BLACK HAIR =/ EVEN THOUGH MY BOYFRIEND REALLY LIKES IT CUS HE GAVE ME THE IDEA..

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  1. Its all up to ( YOU )!


  2. post a picture, then we'll be able to give you an honest opinion.

  3. i don't think people at your school will notice people don't usually notice things like that u shouldn't be worrying  

  4. you should see a professional

    it should be about you feeling comfortable.

  5. its great that your bf likes it but at the same time YOUU have to like it

    if your insecure about yourself then you should accomidate it so that you love your appearance

    and im sure your boyfriend will love your appearance no matter what you do

    so id get it re-died with a professional :)


  6. usually when you dye your hair black

    it fades as you wash it

    if it doesnt fade

    wait about a week

    THEN redye it

    dont dye it right after

    because it could do a loooooot of damage

    2 weeks till school is enough to change it, it only takes an hour to dye hair!

    dont worry sweetie!

  7. Well if YOU don't like it , change it .

    I mean it's all about how you feel about yrself . :/

    I'd say dye it back professionally .

    Because I mean your uncomfortable with it .

    And I'm sure your boyfriend will understand <3(:

  8. If your really upset about you should dye it back. You could try doing it at home with a box but you should remember that a professional doing it has the best results

  9. you should do what you want go to a pro and let her pick out the color WITH you they do great jobs

  10. But,,,black hair and pale skin is awesome!!!anyways...u can vleach ur hair? and re-dy it..but ur hair will get recked.

    Why not just see how it goes...on the 1st day of skool..and if ppl give u bad looks and c**p...bleach it and stuff...don't be a coward

  11. wash your hair 2-3 times a day everyday. it should fade by school

  12. since you just dyed your hair black yesterday, the stylist will make you wait a few weeks until you could actually re-dye it.

    what I would do would be to wash your hair probably around 3times a day and spend A LOT of time out in the sun. Trust me, I don't tan, I burn, but I've been spending a lot of time in the sun, and I'm not as ghostly as I used to be. It should fade, and your skin should tan a little so it should be okay by the time school hits.

    also, since it's a new (possibly drastic) change you're just not used to it yet, and that's why you think you look so weird; once you get used to your new hair, you'll start to get more comfortable in your skin. That and your hair should fade.


  13. um

    dont listen to your boyfriend

    duh.

    black hair unles youre asian looks fake and cheap



  14. Well...think about what you want for a moment.

    Not your boyfriend, not your friend..but you.

    Now take a look in the mirror.

    Do you like what you see?

    You said that you look much more pale with your hair colored black.

    Yes, darker hair makes for a lighter complexion.

    It certainly can make you look unnaturally pale.

    Try using a bronzing powder, around the contour of your face, and a touch of blush to your cheeks. A little more color in your face will make your darker hair look less harsh. You may want to add a little more color to your lips or eyes as well. Burgundy is really in right now, as we enter the fall season. Anything shimmery and glittery is also in.

    You may find you like it, and you may even discover a few new hair styles. If you like your new look, then keep it. However, if you don't like that look, then you should go to a professional to have it corrected. Don't try to fix it yourself.I wish you lots of luck.

  15. Are you angry? whyare you shouting? if not, please don't type in caps! press the caps lock button.

    And about your hair, if you think you're uncomfortable with it then redye it, whatever makes you comfortable is the best.

  16. First off, stop shouting

    Second, go to the salon and get it removed if you hate it that much

  17. make it your hair brown. it might look better.

  18. You have to wait at least 1 week before re-dying at home or with a professional- or the contrasting dyes wil have a bad chemical reaction. I have black hair but I decided to bleach it strawberry blonde- my father freaked & took me to a professional. Even though I told her I had JUST bleached it she dyed it anyway. When she wash it out- strands of my hair were breaking off into the sink & it had turned GREEN! Luckally for me- several other women in the shop had overheard me tell her about the recent bleach job; so the owner opted to buying me a wig & giving me a $200 gift certificate to use so I wouldn't sue. It took a week for the chemicals to wash out but it took three more weeks for my hair to normalize.

  19. do YOU like your hair?

    forget what other people think- it's all about what you want for yourself, if you like your black hair right now and how it feels keep it.

    if not, go redye it-- but you should also consider trying new things.

  20. I wouldn't do what my boyfriend tells me, he has one opinion, think about all the other fish in the sea's opinion, i'd go with your gut feeling, and go to a professional even though it costs more, they know what their doing, hope i could be of help!!!

  21. I would NOT dye it again until you make a hair appointment with a stylist . You really don't want it falling off with all that chemicals ! A new hair style takes time to get used to so wait it out for a week and if you absolutely hate it go see a stylist . Maybe you can try some cool streaks to lighten it up ? Try not to do things to yourself to please some guy bc your gonna have to live with it !

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