Weddding party problems?

Question

my fiance and i have decide who we wanted in the wedding its mostly family plus a friend of each. he doesnt like my best friend because of all the stuff that she has pulled examples would be never calling back, being late or ditching me. she has developed a bad tendancy at doing this, we picked out the dresses and were told to get them paid for asap it took me calling her 4 times to get her to answer the phone. it worrys me that she is going to be late for the wedding she is suppose to be my maid of honor... but his older sister and her boyfriend are demanding to walk down together... it makes things difficult because i want to choose my own maid of honor not one choosen becuase her bf is the best man

Answer 1

Tell his sister she can walk down the aisle with her BF at her own wedding. For your wedding, she will be walking with so-and-so. That's all there is to it.

Also, make sure your MoH knows what you need from her and maybe give her all times 1/2 hour early so she shows up on time?

Good luck!

Answer 2

It's your and your fiance's wedding... it's your decision who walks with whom and in what order.  If they demand to walk together - have them walk out the door together and tell them not let the door hit them in the a$$ on the way out - because you do not need that stress.

They can still dance together at the reception, but as for your maid of honor - that is your choice.  Your fiance chooses the best man, and you the maid of honor..

Answer 3

Honey, I'm going to say this as gently as possible.  

You need to use your backbone!  

Sister & her bf can stand to walk with separate partners for the 30 feet of church aisle.  Period.  No more discussing this with them.

As for your lax MOH, give her the deadline & then you just have to assume she is adult enough to get her payment in.  If she doesn't, that's her bad & she will look like the idiot.  But you can't be babysitting her & chasing her around.  She knows the date, she knows the consequences.  That's really all you can do.

Tell your FI that you've made your decision.  He needs to respect it & lay off of badgering you.  However, you will need to stop b*tching to him about your friend.

Don't let yourself be walked all over!  Being assertive does not make you a bridezilla or a b*tch.

Answer 4

it can be who you want!  

first, its your wedding so you tell them who to talk with.  Its one trip down the aisle.  It shouldnt be a big deal to them.

Or they can walk together and thake their proper places and the groomsman with you MOH.  As long as they stand in the right places!

dont let them push you around!

Answer 5

its your wedding.  if someone doesnt want to do what you want, then they dont have to be in your wedding.  if they want to be difficult, why do you want them to ruin your day?