What do I do?????????

Question

hi. I'm 16 year-old girl. I have two cousin. one cousin is 14 years old.

I'm not sure he is handsome, but, he has a lot of girlfriends.

anyway, he always lies to me like 'hey, you are so gorgeous."

I know he is totally lying to me. you know why?

one time, I heard he told his brother I'm so uglier than my sister.my sister is really pretty,but i'm not. I couldn't believe it. so I was disappointed in him. well, anyway.. he texts me like this : hey,what are you doing~~~?????? ^^

and he always pretends to be cute,and I really hate that!!!!!

I want to say STOP IT! but I can't.

A few days ago, he vistied my home. but, we didn't talk.

yesterday, he texted me like this : I'll visit your house next time, and we can have a funny time! u gotta play with me.

I replied like this : okay.

but I really don't want to play with him.I'm not a kid,and just studying is better than playing with him.

what do I do??

should I ignore him??

whenever I think he told his brother i'm so ugly, i get mad!!!!!!!

ah,so I said him, " hey, you always lies to me. don't do that. I really hate this.please" but, he said "I didn't lie to you. why do you say that?"

ahhhh..please help me out!

Answer 1

tell him you herd him say about the ugly thing and see what he says

Answer 2

he really might not b lying about that but u should just tell him that u dont want to play cuz ur busy or u just tell him the truth!

Answer 3

oooo, i think he likes you

Answer 4

Just tell him what you heard and how you fell.

Answer 5

Tell him or just do something else.

Answer 6

let him read your Q and he will understand for sure

Answer 7

just ignore him.. stop talking to him because he is only doing it to annoy you and he likes the attention.

Answer 8

just ignore him and he'll stop. hes a weirdie and dont bother with them

Answer 9

Continue the conversation. tell him how you know he lied to you.

Answer 10

Some cousins have been known to go after each other sexually. Just make sure that's not his angle.

Next, don't base your attitude toward yourself on what people think about your looks, you'll lose too much energy and it's not worth it. Your character is more important and the right people will appreciate you for that.

Last, at 16 you need to be mature and take the high road. Don't have some 14 year old, idle boy (cousin or not) play your mind around like this. Grow up!