What do i do!!??

Question

ok, my niece/daughter is living with me after her mother was sent to jail.She is 8 years old and tends to demand alot of atenchion her big brother(my adopted son) hates not being part any more.So last night me and him got in a huge fight becuase he wanted to go out and i wouldnt let him.I was yelling telling him no but then he said "your not my mom!" anso i told him to quiet down or he would wake his sister he said to me "Shes not my sister either!"i told him to go to his room but he again told me "your not my mom,this house isnt even myne its yours" i talked to him but he again did it.Well now i am pregnant and he is sll mad at me,plus my 8 year old herd what he said and is really mad at him.

Q1:how will they react to the baby?

Q2:will my two other children ever get along again?

Q3:is he going to grow out of telling me thoughs things?

the 2 of them used to be unseperable

Answer 1

Wow so difficult... try some counseling. Good Luck!

Answer 2

with kindly treat

Answer 3

OMG you poor thing Izzy, it must be so hard on you especially now you are pregnant. it also must be hard on your son and niece as well, their emotions must be all  over the place, this is putting too much strain on you, and it is not good for any of you, even this bub.

I really think the three of you need a lot of guidance especially your son obvoiously he feels not wanted which is not the truth, and this little girl just lost her mum  so her to would be feeling very scared.

There are some wonderful councellors out there, to help all of you, it will take some time, effort and alot of patience, but Im very sure you will all make it.  My heart goes out to you all.

I hope all goes well, pls let me know how the councelling is going and if it helps.

Thinking of you all. I'm not a religious fanatic, but I will pray things go well and you all remain one big happy family.

Take care,

Minny :-)

Answer 4

family counselig. you need it badly

Answer 5

A1: at first they will be unhappy and want to be seperated from the baby but you have to enclude them with the baby

A2:If he apologizes and elps her understand h**l yeah!

A3:if you train him not to say that h**l yeah!