What is KEY to HAPPINESS?

Question

i remain in frustation and anger all the times,if some one said wrong to me,i think that thought day and night and burn my blood

how i can live happy?

give your answer in points like

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Answer 1

1. Love without conditions.  That means making a conscious choice to love others, no matter how they are.  No strings attached.  It doesn't mean being a doormat, it means being at peace with all kinds of relationships.  For example...you can love someone who is an alcoholic, but you dont judge them; neither do you put up with their c**p.  Just love.  Period.

2. A good sense of humor.  Essential to deal with life.  You gotta be able to laugh at yourself and laugh with others.

3. Don't sweat the small stuff.  Let it roll right off your shoulders and make a decision NOT to care about that stupid little problem at work, or what your ex may have said about you.

4. Refuse to care what others think of you.  You can value others' opinions, and that's cool...but however you want to believe, live, dress...is always up to you.  That isn't license to be a crappy person, just an idea/understanding to remind yourself that no one is your personal judge except you.

5.  Be silly.  Have fun.  Act like a total dork.  Don't be afraid of "looking stupid".   We all only get a short time on earth...don't let personal hangups get in the way of being yourself.

6. Do the things you love---make time for them.  Whether that be reading, listening to music, scrapbooking, painting, gardening, whatever...make time for yourself to enjoy doing the things that make you happy.

7. Relax.  Take time-outs for yourself.  Lay in bed, in the middle of the day with a good book.  Take a nice, long, bubble bath.  Go on line and research relaxation, meditation and breathing techniques.  Take naps.  Get in the pool and just float.  Save up and take a vacation....you get the picture.  Make time for yourself to totally relax and put yourself in a peaceful situation and environment.

Those are my "keys" to happiness.

Hope you find yours :)

Answer 2

1 God

2 Family

3 friends

4 yourself

That's it only you can know what makes you happy. when i just see my nieces i forget everything and i am forgiving to everyone, like just seeing their innosence in all of the maddness of the world. its what makes me happy

Answer 3

Discover the joy that you can even laugh at yourself

Answer 4

All you need to know is what you want.

We can't tell you what you want out of life only you can, if you actually take some time to think about it...

Answer 5

Life is what you make it.

For me its:

1. God

2. Family

3. Pets

4. Work

5. Enjoyment

Answer 6

Happiness ...

well there is not an exact way to tell as to how you can remain happiness...

There can be many ways to be happy.

1. Sometimes happiness comes when you see that you are the source of someones happiness.

2. Sometimes ignoring someones pain and not thinking about it can make us happy.

3. Sometimes ignoring people teasing and taunting you can make you happy.

4. And sometimes acting like a true human being makes you happy.

I prefer the the last one.

See this is a human life, happiness and sadness are a part of life. Life would be so boring if there was only happiness around us don't you think.

Well if i get sad by someones comment such as (hey prince , you give up on things too easily), i try to prove them  wrong.

Of course we feel bad when someone makes a false comment about us.

Yes , that is what i normally do, i prove them wrong. That too in the most humble manner.

Ignoring is running away from your problems, dont ignore them and face them and win!!

That is what makes me happy!!

Chao ^_^;

Prince

Answer 7

1 You always need to have a sense of hope in your life

2 Surround yourself with good people

3 Get in touch with your spiritual side

4 Have a job doing something your passionate about

5 Make time to do things for youself

6 Have a hobbie

7 Set goals and do your best to acchieve them

8 Dont stress about what the key to happiness is... Its what you want it to be

Answer 8

1 - Listen to your body's wisdom, which expresses itself through signals of comfort and discomfort.

2 - When choosing a certain behavior, ask your body, "How do you feel about this?"

3 - If your body sends a signal of physical or emotional distress, watch out.

4 - If your body sends a signal of comfort and eagerness, proceed.

Answer 9

See man if someone tells u something wrong then there must be a reason . Just look that bad thing in u , what he is reffering u as .If u find that bad thing in u then , accept itc and change ur self and if u don't find it then , just simply ignore the person because he/she does'nt know anything about u . And u don't need to worry about it . But if u have that bad thing in u then instead of worrying or making ur day bad just try to improve ur self .

Answer 10

1 love

2 children

3 s*x

4 animals

5 friends n family

6 money

7 time to youreslf relax

Answer 11

1.love

2.family

3.friends

Answer 12

God.

Answer 13

1stop caring about what other people think

2move on, get a hobby

3read 'who will cry when you die'

4get a pet

5write it in a diary. or write it on paper then tear itup

6enojy life

7start to comfort eat

Answer 14

From your comments, it is obvious that the key to happiness lies within you, within the self.

One can have all the love, family, money etc and still not be happy. Happiness is a state of mind. and states of mind are what we allow ourselves to be. A guy can be dining at the best Italian restaurant and still be unhappy. Another may be just munching some biscuit and be smiling in satisfaction.

Someone once said that we can always choose to be either happy or unhappy. It has to do with one's attitude, view of the world, natural disposition, mental take, etc

Answer 15

1. Set realistic goals

2. Work towards these goals.

3. Learn from mistakes.

4. Repeat with new goals.

Work hard - live free.

Answer 16

Be a Muslim!

You will have self satisfaction.

Answer 17

1.  be content in what you have and enjoy it.

2.  be yourself.

3.  be honest.

4.  accept corrections.

5.  live peacefully with other people.

6.  always ask God for guidance.

7.  focus on your goal.

8.  be positive.

9.  be smart.

10. always smile.

Answer 18

When one buys a new car, he uses and maintains it according to the User's Manual. By religiously following the manufacturer's instructions, he can have the best of the product. It will deliver its best performance, will rarely break down and will last longer.

Likewise, our Grand Designer--our Creator--God knows exactly how we are made. He knows how we can best use our life which results to lasting happiness. He knows, too, what breaks us down and make us unhappy.

Hence, learning from our User's Manual, God's Word the Holy Bible, is the first step to happiness (John 17:3). Understanding what we learned and applying them in our daily life is the next step. Finally, the key to a lasting happiness is having a close relationship with our Creator, one that is based on complete reliance and obedience to His righteous principles.

Answer 19

Daily prayer

Reading your bible daily

Family

Good friends

Love and respect for yourself and others