What is wrong with him?

Question

ok, so I know this person I kinda like and one minute, he is really nice and treats me really nice and then the next he changes and becomes silent and acts like he is better then me? why is this? and is there anyway to concur them when they act this way?

Answer 1

He be crazy!

Answer 2

being a a***e

Answer 3

I feel your pain, sister.  Men can be tricky to figure out, and I use the word "men" loosely, b/c most of them are "boys".  That being said, the thing you really need to figure out is are his mood swings attributable to YOU or to HIM.  Sometimes, you are not the issue; rather, he has issues.  In the long run, you are better off with someone who is a little more predictable, b/c no one wants to keep guessing all their lives if they are going to be treated nicely or as an invisible party to a relationship.  AND I'll tell you one more thing, usually when a guy is acting like he thinks he's so much better than you, he's actually overcompensating for his own insecurity that you are better than him.  So just remember that the next time he gets on his high horse and remember that you have the power to knock him right off that horse!

Answer 4

he is probably thinking about something at that moment henceforce his silent. if he actually believed he was better than you trust me he would NOT be kind to you at ALL.

Answer 5

Conquer.  Not sure if you can, but you can try.  I think he's shy, and not very confident. It sounds like he digs you, and wants you to dig him too, but acting better than someone isn't the way to go about it.  Ask him what gives?  Tell him how you feel.  Good luck, Jen

Answer 6

He has a problem;maybe he's insecure,wanted some attention or something that troubling inside him. Just ask him to open up....hope this will help.

Answer 7

Maybe he's trying to impress you, but doesnt know which type of girl you are... give him a hint ... hope this works good luck

Answer 8

maybe his arrogance comes out once in a while

Answer 9

I am in that situation too, like one second he's flirting and the next he's shutting me down. It's really annoying. I think if you are good friends, it might be because he is afraid of getting too close and doesn't want to ruin your friendship.

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Answer 10

i answere allot of questions simmilar to this. what i would do is notice if hes acting different when other people are arround like freinds, bullies, people who he wants to impress or is scared of. if this is true he is just doing it to impresse people who he is scared of or just freinds. i would talk to him about it and if he changes he really likes you, if he tries to change but doesnt hes not worth dating. so dont he wont really be able to stick up for you or him. hope this helps! let me know if it does.

Answer 11

Is your name Sam perchance?

But yea, maybe because you give off the vibe like you don't like him but he likes you...and maybe you don't cuddle with him when he wants to.  

Answer 12

when he's silent and acts like he's better then you, it's because he isn't horny, and he's just being himself, trust me, a man shows his true colors when he doesn't want s*x.