What on earth do women want?

Question

I cannot win with my girlfriend on a lot of different points. One day something is ok, the next it isnt. She really is wonderful, dont get me wrong, but just wondering, what do women want?

Answer 1

that is a loaded question.  it all depends on your woman because we are all different and have different ideas...there is no across the board right answer for ya, you just have to try and figure out your woman.  You could try just understanding that each day may be different ... but love her no matter what.

Answer 2

They want to "RULE". Welcome to the land of ruling women. They want to be treated like they are the only women in this world that you can get! They are never wrong and they will never admit that they were wrong. They know everything! And want everything! Set her in her place bro! Gently but wrightfully! Dont give in! Good Luck, Hope that helps!

Answer 3

Her pooper, stick something in it.

Answer 4

To know they can manipulate you to their every whim.  

Actually, they are more emotional than us man-folks, so it can be confusing at times.  If you really love her, hang in there, you'll catch on somewhat.  Good luck!

Answer 5

They want a sweet, sensitive guy

Who eats babbys

Answer 6

Why don't you ask her?  Seriously.  Say to her, "I really care about you, and I want to make you happy.  How can I make you happy, right this moment?"

Some important things to remember:

When she asks, "Do I look fat in this?"  She's really saying, "Can you please tell me I'm beautiful?"

When she says she had a bad day at work/school, she's not asking for solutions, unless she specifically asks for solutions.  She just wants you to listen.

If she says, "I feel like you're not listening to me", she means, "Please act like you're interested."

If she says, "My shoulders hurt", she means, "Can you please rub them for me?"

If she says, "I feel like c**p today", she means, "I'm feeling particularly unattractive.  Will you please tell me I'm beautiful?"

But also keep in mind that we women have mood swings, depending on our hormones.  But just remember to ask your girlfriend how you can make her happy.  That's the most important thing.

Answer 7

I'll let you know when I figure it out...

Answer 8

love, respect, and attention

Answer 9

Women will want what I'll tell them to want.

Answer 10

Different things then men, namely commitment, honesty, and forebearance.  In exchange women give love, respect, loyalty, conversation and warmth in bed (beyond what any dog ever could).

Answer 11

I don't even have a girlfriend so you're already one point up

Answer 12

Generally, they want a Harley-riding, bodybuilding, former NFL quarterback fireman who has inherited his family fortune of billions, has a degree in philosophy from Harvard, and who sometimes starts bar fights but cries at Lifetime Channel movies.

That's not too much to expect, is it?

Answer 13

It is true, to some extent, that women don't have the single-minded desires that men do, so it's possible for a woman to want different things on different days.  This may not seem logical to men, but to women varying desires are the norm and the drive of men for such limited things is equally perplexing.  Just try to open the lines of communication so you know what she wants and she knows what you want and give up trying to "figure her out" and go with it.  

Answer 14

Women don't even understand women, your story is nothing unusual so don't beat your head against the wall trying to figure it out.

Answer 15

This should help... right?

Answer 16

Mars

Answer 17

Aaaah, the age old question.  I'm sure she wonders the same things about you...

Answer 18

i'm male... don't ask me

but i do have some ideas

respect, love, someone to encourage them in their goals and dreams

Answer 19

Well, all women are different.  I just want world domination.  Is that SO much to ASK?  LOL.  Seriously, I always ask for what I want.  I don't like to keep men guessing and I don't like them to keep me guessing.  Open dialogue, no wishy washy 'well if that's what you think, what do you think?'

Answer 20

Women are people. We do not all want the same thing. If your girlfriend does not like you, pass her by and find one who does. It does not mean anything is wrong with her or with you. It is what it is. Deal with it.

Answer 21

Me neither.

Answer 22

I think different women want different things. The only one that seems to matter at this point in your life is your girlfriend, so I think you should ask her. I also suggest you do it when you're both in a positive and pleasant mood, or you may wind up getting an earful of angry expletives and accusations.

Answer 23

Everything. Your total compliance and your undying love. LOL Just playing. What she really wants is you to love her and accept her as she is. Too see her always through eyes of love and to respect her and her choices.

Answer 24

She probably wants another dude.

Answer 25

I do not know, but it sounds like she has you where she wants you.

Answer 26

I heard a preacher say that women want God.

Answer 27

In essence, they want the most powerful mate they can attain, and then they want to feel protected.  Originally, the best physical specimens were the most powerful, these days it's more about wealth.

In the end, that's all it's about.