What should my niece do?

Question

My ex-boyfriend's niece is having a 19th bd party. She lives with her fiance & their 1 yo daughter. She has spent a lot of time with her 2 cousins, ages 4 & 6, who are my children & myself, and was our babysitter of choice before she had her own baby.

The issue is that the children's father is married now to a woman who has a 14 yo daughter. There is a Court Order of "no contact" between the 14 yo girl & the 2 children due to unbelievable circumstances (a Parent's worst nightmare). Also, their dad must have mandatory supervised visitation because of his not protecting the kids.

The 19 yo niece doesn't want her uncle, his wife & the 14 yo girl there, but is being pressured by her Mom to include them. That means that the children & I can not attend. I'm ok with that, & assured my (not-actually) niece that we could all go out later at another time to celebrate with her.

The bigger problem is her upcoming wedding. She wants the cousins as her flower girl/ring bearer. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

you actully can get permission to be around this person or this person around you.. by going in front of a judge and asking permission for to go the wedding with the children..

as for the birth day party I would have BIG problems with the mother of the girl wanting to have this other person around, since there is a no contact order on her for things you did not mention, If I am assuming is what I think it is..makes you wonder if THAT woman would protect children around her from someone like that..?

Answer 2

Put it all on the Jerry Springer show and try to make some money out of it.