Whats defines popular people at school?

Question

and is it true that the non-opulars become poular after highschool because they have social skills and the others dont?

Answer 1

When you get in high school (or at least at my high school) nobody cares if you're popular or not.

It's just a matter of how much confidence you have in yourself, and don't change or try to be somebody  you know you're not, just to be in the IN crowd.

It's just not worth it

Answer 2

Well, I graduated high school 50 years ago, but back then popular meant having a lot of friends, being friendly and outgoing, being a good student and in student government, being outstanding in sports or music, or involved in youth groups that help the community.

Some young people become popular later on, in college, because they were late bloomers or did not come out of their shell until the late teens.

Answer 3

Well popular girlz are usually pretty or friends of the popular. They are also sometimes known as the ***mean girlz*** They are called that because they make fun of people who are not popular or do not include others.The nice ones usually dont care if they are popular or not.They include almost everyone.Popular girlz get all the good looking boys. I happen to be a little popular. If you want to be popular i would be on the nice side.it doesnt really matter if you are smart or not.

Popular boyz are usually tough and play sports. They also shoot for the popular girls to date. The boyz arent very friendly but some are. The boyz try to show others how smart they are by fighting. Nice ones help the nonpopular,

Answer 4

When you get older, you'll find that no one cares about "popular" and "unpopular" anymore. It's a nonissue by the time you reach college. There will always be some people who feel a need to define themselves as being more "hip" or attractive then everyone else, but no one else cares anymore, so it doesn't really affect you.

Just stick it out. Looking back on the whole popular/unpopular thing will make you laugh in a few years. For now, tough it out knowing that socially, these will be the hardest days of your life

Answer 5

Well first of all there is no such thing as a popular girl or boy or a popular clique.

Here's a scenario to prove my point:

Jessica is considered popular at her school. She's very pretty and she hangs out with other people just like her. When people ask them who is the most popular person at their school is some might say Jessica, but if you ask Jessica she will say someone else.

Jessica is normal just like everyone else. She has a close group of friends but she also has friends scattered in every clique.

But seriously what you see on tv is nothing like in real life. A person might be known because she talks to a lot of people but that doesn't make him/her popular.

There's really no such thing as popularity. If someone says someone else is popular it's probably out of jealousy.

Answer 6

Some non-popular people become successful because they have the skills, yes. It is not always the case but I know kids who were called losers during high school and now have the world at their feet.

What defines a popular person is confidence. It happened to me a lot of times to see a not-so-attractive person but to want to be in their company and I realized it was the way they presented themselves. If you believe in yourself and know what you can do, others will see it too.

Didn't you notice that when you're having a good day and know everything is gonna be great, people are nicer to you? The way you feel really shows and a smile can make wonders.