When does it become adultry?

Question

i am not married but my man is so am i commetting adultry or is he he says she does nothing for him and he needs me and he will die without me sometimes he is upset and he has hit me but i made him mad now i do not want to commett adultry please advise me i am 25 he is 58

Answer 1

“Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, commit´s adultery: and whoso marry´s her which is put away does commit adultery.”

(Matthew.19:9)

“Whosoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart.”

(Matthew.5:28)

“And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she commit´s adultery.”

(Mark.10:12)

Answer 2

You say he hit you?

stay away from him!

No one has a right to hit you!

Answer 3

You both are

And you're very naive to think he needs you

Abuse can never be reasoned

You have some growing up to do

Answer 4

It becomes adultery the moment you think about it.

Matthew 5:28, "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart."

2 Peter 2:14, "Having eyes full of adultery, and that cannot cease from sin; beguiling unstable souls: an heart they have exercised with covetous practices; cursed children."

Answer 5

Heh'

He is not your man, he is apparently his own man.  If you are into getting hit, then by all means continue to be abused by this abscess.

Answer 6

i thinks we should all mark this as spam...

I agree with Na Real - keep hitting each other - god would like that!

Answer 7

Honey , I pray in the name of Jesus Christ OPEN YOUR EYES!!!

  YES! you are committing adultery I think you know that you are ,you just need someone to spell it out for you.. so here you go.. What you are doing is WRONG!

Not only that NO Man that loves you will ever  HIT you no matter what!

Get away from this freak before he kills you..

He is WAY to old for you anyway, think of all the more wrinkles he will have in 10yrs.Do you really want to see that Naked. You need someone closer to your own age so that you can get all wrinkley together.

Look in church for a good  SINGLE man. The men there actually want a wife and family of there own.

God bless you .

Answer 8

No matter what you call it, what you are doing is wrong.

Answer 9

If you have ever had s*x, married or not, then have s*x with another while that first one still lives, you are commiting adultry.

Most of us have, I believe I will be forgiven.

But with him, you are wasting your life.

Answer 10

Both of you are commiting adultery.

Answer 11

If you are touching this man in a sexual manner or he you or communicating this way, it is adultery.  Unless he divorces his wife, he does not belong with you!  Unless he fears for his life from his wife....

Bad karma will make things worse.  Do the right thing, cut it off or have him tell his wife as long as she and he can handle it.

That's the best I can do without knowing more particulars.

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Answer 12

just lusting after someone is adultry

Answer 13

There's no help for you. I mean, you put yourself in this position.

Answer 14

When you find that you are not in control of your life, are with someone who hits you and who is deceitful to his wife and probably to you, it is time to make a break and set up a new life.

Answer 15

Well you are in it. You really need to change you life. You are on a road to danger, unhappiness and guilt. Satan has you right where he wants you, miserable, scared and confused, just like him.

If you are serious, check out http://www.mormon.org and get the answers to Life's Biggest questions.

http://scriptures.lds.org/

Answer 16

You refer to him as 'my man'. Well if he's married he is someone else's man - not yours!  If you are having s*x with him you are committing adultery.  

'He will die without you'. That sounds like a new version of 'My wife doesn't understand me'..

He is more than twice your age and he hits you.

The best thing that you could do for yourself is tell him to get back to his wife. If he lifts a finger towards you as he's going call the police.

He sounds like a bully and a middle aged man wanting to relive his youth with a new model.

Take your time in finding someone new who will love and cherish you and who will want only you, exclusively, not a bit on the side.  

You deserve better than him.

Answer 17

If a man looks upon a woman with lust in his heart or the opposite way, then it is adultery in the heart already. this is one reason people should not walk around half naked.

Answer 18

No wonder she does nothing for him. If he hits you, you know he's hitting her. This is just an excuse.

Are you really this dumb? He is just using you.You are just 25, and you need someone that is going grow old with you not someone that you are going to have to change their diaper within the next few years.

BTW you have already commited adultery. If you are somewhat religious, you need to make up for what you did.

Answer 19

You are both cheating snakes. You should hit each other more often. You deserve it.

Answer 20

The first time he looked at you with lust in his heart it was adultry on his part.

The first time you touch him or let him touch you it was on your part.

The fact that he has already hit you proves he does not love you he is just in lust with your 25 year young body.

End it now, before he really hurts you.

Then repent for your sin to Jesus.

http://www.godlovestheworld.com/

Answer 21

Here's my advise, if the bast*rd hits you get the f*ck out!

Answer 22

It becomes adultery when you can spell it properly.

Answer 23

I hope you are joking, seriously.

First, you have no reason to be dating a man over twice your age.

Second, if he is unfaithful to his wife to be with you, what makes you think he won't kick you to the curb as soon as he finds someone better?

Third, you should have nothing to do with a man who hits you no matter how "mad you make him." You need to get some self-respect.