Why are guys so clingy?

Question

it seems like whenever i date a guy or we're just talking or whatever they get so clingy and obsessed. usually i'd think the girl was but in this case guys are so weird. lol. and like after a week of dating their like omg i love you. granted im only 15 and i know its all bull but i just find it amazing how the roles have seemed to change from girls being pressed on guys to guys being pressede on girls.

Answer 1

I just think fear of losing someone they think they're in competition with....maybe a friend.

Answer 2

Well mabe your just running in to the people that fall very fast or are so obsessed withyou .

Answer 3

It might be static clingyness.  Thank you and good day.

Answer 4

I usually find myself with guys who aren't very touchy feely myself. I kinda like a clingy guy to be honest. I like to cuddle and stuff lol.

Answer 5

Some people just have a lot of guys fall in love with them...No joke I'm the same way I swear when I was single I would date guys...Hang out like 3 times and they would say they are falling in love with me or stupid c**p like that...Just take it easy and don't worry and you will appreciate it more when YOU feel that same way and the guy is returning it. :)

Answer 6

i kno what you mean

Answer 7

i know what you mean.....my 16 year old friend said to his girlfriend of 2 weeks i love you constantly and is practically attached to her shoulder every time he is with her, and i said you've known her 2 weeks how can you say you "love" her

idk guys can be just as clingy as girls sometime....mabye its because those kind of guys feel insecure and is afraid he might lose you, idk

Answer 8

Is this a legitimate question or observation?

You are speaking for yourself in your particular situations.

There has not been a "universal social role change"  as you so adamantly stated.