Why are some guys like this?

Question

a guy i'm talking to said i'm the only girl he wants to do certain things with, in yet he's with his gf and he says he wants me to be his bed buddy? ofcourse, i don't want to be that!

Answer 1

Thats sluttish

Answer 2

maybe he is sick of his gf, wants some bed fun :) lol, or likes you that way.

Looks like your a bit scared to have fun.

but aside from that, don't give in to him. if you do it only makes things worse.

PS: "Thats sluttish" no its not, its called having fun. nothing wrong with it.

Answer 3

  He thinks he can have his cake and eat it too! Don't lower yourself to this game. He's trying to say, or make you feel special, but totally disrespecting you- on a whole other level.

  If he thinks your special and wants to make it official then you would be his gf, if he just wants the goods but to be with different girl then he doesn't respect you!

Answer 4

Horny guy looking for action on the side.

If he's young, then that's probably a sufficient answer...not too keen about attachment, I suppose.

Answer 5

that's the worst thing you can become "his bed buddy" , he sounds greedy. Sounds like he wants to fullfill some of his fantasys with you instead of his girlfriend. Don't fall into his temptation, tell him to handle it with is girl and leave you alone until he's single.

Answer 6

Don't play down to his level. Your definatly better then a bed buddy. And what kind of loser comes up with that anyways. Please move on.