Why do men change after marriage?

Question

it's been 8months after we got married but i am seeing some changes in the man i married before we got together.

Answer 1

Tell me, have you not changed too?

In a relationship, after some time, both parties change, adapt according to situation.

It is called positive molding.  An action to make the marriage work.

I am writing with only one thought in my mind.

If the person is changing then it is bad.

good luck and god bless

Answer 2

changes for the better or worse. we are not mind readers and have no idea what you are reffering to.

Answer 3

I don't think that he changed. I think your expectations have been raised because now he is your husband (as apposed to your boyfriend), and you expect him to act differently. He is the same person he was when you were dating, but, sometimes, we don't see all the "faults" because we're so much in love, getting excited about the wedding, and thinking those small things that drove you nuts before were cute, now they are not. He hasn't changed, your view of him has. He's still the same guy.

Answer 4

In WAHT WAY?

Answer 5

in reality for a man it feels that they signed the paper you are theres and they safe okay - they are so wrong its early marriage sydrome they want and they expect to get come home sit in front of the tv and when they want s*x they have it with there wives of cause (some goes elsewere) after marraige a spark dissappears and both male and female needs to work at keeping that spark alive its diffcult i know - but you need to do that before you loose your husband - communication is very important - have you spoken to him about how you feel ? try this please - good luck  

Answer 6

there will always be changes not only in men, but also in women. before marriage, they always try to show the best to impress the other, and the truth self will come out after marriage, because one can't hide the truth character forever special  being together for a long time.

Answer 7

I would be willing to bet he's thinking the  same thing about you.

The only difference is that he would never ask that question in a place like this.

People don't change all that much in a short time. Perhaps you're just seeing things about him you weren't aware of before. We can't know everything about one another.

Answer 8

Some changes after marriage are simply the process of becoming accustomed to the new life. Settling in and maturing are natural processes. We all change daily as we learn and add experience to our lives.

But the people who change a lot shortly after marriage usually played a game while dating. Ask him about the changes as you see them and listen carefully to his answers (if he will answer at all). Keep your communications open and don't let worry or frustration build inside of you. Some changes can be lived with and others cannot - you will have to decide what to do based on his responses, future actions, and whether you can live with this 'new' man.

Answer 9

yeah it happens so, I think men are also in the habbit of changing moods every now and then too, before marriage they love you like h**l, they can die for you, after marriage they love as if you are the most precious, but after a few months they change their mood, they feel bored and they start ignoring wives, they like to sleep and live lazily, when wife asks for small disciplines, they get irritated and argue, actually men do not care much about success in marriage. Women actually adjust and do so many things for a successful marriage.

Answer 10

For the same reason women change, the Hunt is Over, now its time to clean the prey for supper.

Answer 11

I'm sure he sees some changes in you too.