Why do men get hooked?

Question

Why do men get hooked on p**n? What are cause? what can help them stop looking at p**n?

Answer 1

This is not a complicated answer. And it's not really an addiction. It's more of an Obsessive Compulsion and it comes about through classical conditioning. You might want to look up that last term but when a man looks at an erotic, sexually stimulating picture or video and masturbates to o****m, he is combining the most extreme pleasure a man can have with the erotica and consequently conditions himself to viewing p**n and having orgasms. Since o****m is a natural bodily function and part of the survival instinct (reproduction), it is extremely hard to break the habit or compulsion.

Answer 2

There is such a strong connection betweens human beings that watching p**n almost puts you in the p**n actors' position.  Ever watched a football game and someone made an incredible play and for that moment you felt so connected to that athlete that if felt like it was you who made that play?  Humans are so in-tune with each other that we can greatly relate to others' experiences.

With that said, men love s*x.  Since we have a strong connection with the experiences of others, watching p**n makes us feel like we are the ones having s*x.  There is nothing wrong with this at all.  

Answer 3

The same way girls get so hooked on makeup that they can't leave the house/go to the gym/walk the dog without having their face done.

Answer 4

because the feeling of masterbating is priceless  

Answer 5

Every person looks different and everyone has s*x in different ways so I think it's often curiosity and a need to see what the next person looks like/does.  Also, if you aren't having s*x with a real person then you can often need an outlet for the built up hormones.

Answer 6

I'm a man and I dont watch p**n.  

Answer 7

Male lust is because of the physical decision, no way to stop male lust. If men do not lust, it would not be a normal man, but not of chaos. Below are the men lust statement.

Answer 8

Because they can.  Because it's everywhere.

Answer 9

Anything can be addictive.     Water can be addictive--there are a few individuals who drink so much water that they can get brain damage.

Most men, not all, enjoy looking at p**n, watching others having sexual activity seems to be ingrained in the male instinctively.

Most men don't become addicted to it, it's only addiction when it excludes other activities, both sexual and social.  

When p**n was first legalized in Denmark, s*x crimes decreased, as those individuals who had a tendency towards criminal sexual behaviour could have their fantasies to p**n, masturbating instead of acting them out.

Many women can't understand why men like looking at p**n.    They seem to think that men should be just like they are.   To these women I say; If you want someone who thinks just as you do, perhaps a relationship with another woman would be more to your liking.

Some women enjoy looking at p**n, and some enjoy it with their partners.

What can make men stop looking at p**n?    Death and old age.

Women, don't try to change men into something they're not--learn to accept them for what they are.

Answer 10

Males are nature's reproductive tool. Nature uses males in an aggressive way. We fight for the right to populate.  In a way  is the thing we seek. While we blame men. We should not.  Its not the males fault. He is designed for this. Males are focused to hunt in nature.  Our eyes are stereo and in color. We do one thing at a time and very well while other tasks will suffer greatly.

An old Star Trek episode took this into the design of an alien vessel. 1,000 times smaller than the enterprise but with equal if not more power. The reason was that the entire ships power was used for defense, and no life support or any other tasks.

For nature it was important that males hunt and over power. And we do. Look at poor Iraq  today if you have any doubt.  Females are the opposite.  They multitask and are loving...

by the way has had a bad rap in the media and your question even verifies this.

If I  read it correctly. But  has an essential role to play in America.

You see. America is dysfunctional. Laws and excessive religion have made it almost illegal to be male. $ex is attacked at all levels.  If you need proof visit any hospital and you will see countless attempts by this country to convince parents that hacking more than half of a baby's peni$ off is a good thing.

No other country places this kind of  $exual mutilation on its people in the entire world. The consequences of this act have a profound effect on society.

Ma$turbation is delayed far too long and kids get aggressive from lack of release. Normal ma$turbation takes place at around age 4 to 5 years old. Foreskins teach a boy how early in life. Without one the boy will have to learn this from someone, and there is no one there to show him for many years yet. This is somehow sold to be a good thing.

The effect of a dried out head later develops into almost no sensitivity as an adult. The male is thus rendered un-able to perform. In comes American Marketing and a billion dollar industry flourish to sell product like KY for instance. This is a lube required for cut males, and not available to youngsters who are more frustrated than ever. A natural male never needs KY  !

Viagra is now available for men who are so tightly cut and their p***s is mostly deactivated. Or bent, or scared too badly to function correctly.

But lets go back to the male being able to please a woman. You cannot ask you mom or dad how to please a girl. You cannot ask your teacher where is the best place to l**k a chick.  Can you ask a cop ? Can you ask the pastor ? Can you ask your sister. The answer is a big fat NO. You cannot even ask a friend.  So  is doing what parents in this country never do for their children. They don't know how and feel awkward showing kids about $ex. They should be the first people we entrust to talk about these issues.

When was the last time you asked your mom about what is the best position for having $ex with your girlfriend ?  Or what position she likes best.   for all its bad media and rap, is the only way I ever had of actually seeing a girls well.. Her private parts... How do I please my girl ?    told me how to make her day, and I am so lucky to have had  in my life.

We learn form others. We learn from viewing. Just because the subject is $ex we instantly label it foul and bad.  Males are addicted to it because its what we do. Its what we were designed to do, and the better we perfect this the more value other females have for us.

Want to keep you girl from dating another guy ? Well - start with the  because you will learn how and what to do, and if you do this for her, and do it right, then she will never leave you, and if she does... Chances are she'll be back because the U.S. is greatly $exually dysfunctional in this regard.

Take  away and the only source of any kind of  knowledge will be gone, and then we will suffer more than ever. $exual crime by the way is linked to frustrated youths..

The Surgeon General Jocelyn Elders was fired from her post for suggesting that we teach ma$turbation. She was right, but the American Media and religious factions demanded she be fired for suggesting it.   The truth is that $ex and all its greatness is quickly becoming an under cover underground practice in this very religious crime ridden country we call America.   Look at all the dollar signs and pound signs I need to include here to get this answer posted.

As for males... Its the only thing that seems so right for us. Finally there is a place we can go to,  that understands our problem. I am not cut and my parents were happy to see me ma$turbating at 4 years of age. They did tell me to try not to do it when people would be watching.  Little kids don't know its $ex it just feels good.

I remember my mom seeing me do it and just smiled and said can you do it back here behind the wall or in you room. I asked why, and she said because its a private thing and people don't like to see it.

Ok Mommy.. And that was that.. I kept on doing it for the rest of my life. And it paid off too. I am about 4 times more active than my American counter parts here today. Being British had its benefits.. My parents never lied to me.. I knew about a girls period, and $ex as a very young boy. They had to tell me because I had an older sister.  Boys ask why to everything.

I even walk in on my parents one morning when they were having $ex, and it seemed to me that my dad was hurting my mommy, and I cried to help her. Then she smiled and said she was OK and that I should go back to sleep. So I did. - Later she told me that that was $ex and that it is how mommy and daddy play.  And that we don't talk about that outside the home.

So when its explained kids do what they are told to.   also takes a back seat to women. Women fear that they are not good enough... Why does my boyfriend watch  instead of me.  Well because you have your cloths on and p**n doesn't.  Take them off and the  goes off.

What girls do not realize is the benefit to them from .   Is it cheating..  Not anymore than ma$turbation causes AIDS.   My mom found a mens magazine under my bed that I found.

She did not say anything, but she put it in the trash. My father threw a banana peel in the trash and discovered the magazine. Just prior to ending dinner he ordered everyone in the kitchen. Yes even my mom.   His voice was strong.  My father took the magazine out and set it on the table.  I was falling apart at this point.  Shaking like a leaf.  He opened the magazine to the centerfold and spread it fully across the table.

Now playboy back then was rather conservative by today's standard, but for the time this was risky viewing. My mom said nothing. He asked in a loud deep voice. Who's magazine is this ? No one said anything...  Then my sister said its his and pointed to me. Then she added ( her two cents  )  She was sent to her room for the rest of the night and could not use the family car for the name she called me.



Then it was my mom and I. She finally said she had put it there and that she found it under my bed. < my sister listening on top of the stairs - annoyed >  To my surprise... My father asked my mom if it was hers.  She said NO, I told you where I found it.

He replied - If it was not yours then you need to put it back where it belongs and do this right now !  Wholly cow !   I remained shaking and maybe even more now.. My mom was getting into trouble and in front of the entire family over my magazine.

The matter was resolved. A few days later the magazine which was in poor shape was replaced with a brand new one. On it was a note from my mom.  Sorry about what I did. This is a cleaner one to replace the weathered dirty one.  I hope you can forgive me. I just don’t like to see women in those positions, but I understand its important for you, and it was not my business.

These were my parents. I lived in a loving home where my parent and my sister respected me as a male not just another member of the family.

Am I addicted to p**n.  No.. But if its on,  I'll watch.. I love women. All women and I respect them all. I was taught to respect women. I open the door for them... Am I hooked on .. Not anymore than being hooked on food, or going to the bathroom, or ma$turbation.  There is a place and a time for all these things...

So yes.. In a way I am.. I am not giving ma$turbation up. What guy would ?  Even though I have a girlfriend.  I need it all the time and sometimes she is not in the mood.. Its really no problem, and she is ok with that. She knows that when she needs it I am always ready.  And when she doesn’t want it that I am not going to leave her. I am home doing my job. Making sure its always ready the next time around. Because I am male I will ma$turbate, and I will look at .

It has only positive effects and completely STD safe !  

Keeping the home happy for everyone only comes from knowledge and understanding. I don't put  on when my girlfriend is around out of respect, but the DVD's are right there in the open for anyone to see.

Because they should know its there and I am male. I respect women and I would never give them static about their ma$turbation or toys or even them having a period or tampon about..

I have condoms in the bathroom too and in full view of anyone when they open the cabinet. I use them but they are there for any person that enters my home, and I don't need to know who took them or why.

Being safe and keeping clean is a respect to ones self and to the safety of others.  has a bad rap but that is changing today.  It will always be number one on the internet and for just about all males. Young and old.  My girlfriend knows I watch it . She is not too comfortable with watching it and I never force it on her. Only one time I had to tell her it was here to stay. After that one time she ... Well she ignores it mostly. I treat her better than an

Answer 11

Men have a lot of ranging hormones and it helps them to get a sexual release by watching p**n.  It is just part of the way nature made the male human.

Any guy who says he doesn't like p**n from time to time is mostly likely lying or has never seen any.

A good relationship with a lady friend (if straight) or with another guy (if g*y) that involves regular s*x can help to avoid becoming addicted.

However, no harm for a normal adult male to watch p**n from time to time -- for example, when away on business and staying at a hotel alone.

This applies to adult males -- I do NOT recommend that teenagers watch p**n.  Save it for when you go to college.

Answer 12

"This applies to adult males -- I do NOT recommend that teenagers watch p**n." eh what?

most teenage boys watch p**n more than men, what is your reason for them not to?