Why is it like that??

Question

Why is it that when a female look for a mate in life she can get into his financial status before making the decision to settle down with him. She has to know that this man can carry her finances in their relationship.( It's all good ) but if a guy look for a female who is financially stable before he get involved with her than he is said to be looking for someone to take care of him and he is like this big disgrace to all males!! Why can't a guy look for a partner who is financially set???

Answer 1

Not all women are like that. It doesn't have to be like that.... I personally, didn't care much about the financial stability of my mate. I knew I was financially stable, and that I could take care of myself. This topic should be talked about though! I have seen marriages fail because of financial problems.

If you are looking for a financially stable woman, that's cool! Just make sure that you can offer what you are looking for. I'm sure there are women out there that would be willing to sit and have a mature conversation of how the finances would be handled....  

Answer 2

You can. Everything you said was a generalization. Plenty of women are set in their own careers and are fine to support themselves.