Why r guys so jealous?

Question

so me and my bf have been to gather a year i really love him and he knows this we r in our last year o high school and the new boy sent me a love note now hes made said i lead this other guy on what do i do?

Answer 1

I know you're in HS, but come on.....He needs to grow up.

What do you do?  You talk to him calmly and tell him that you didn't lead him on.  Then if he can't handle that, kick him to the curb.

Answer 2

drop him cause this a big red flag that is saying the bridge is out ahead danger danger danger.  Run, do not walk away from this guy who blames you for his own insecurity.  He is trouble.

Answer 3

Just keep cool and explain to him honestly.  This can happen to anyone.  If the two of you are really close and have good lines of communication with each other, then this should come away with a good outcome.  If after explaining and your boyfriend still is making a problem out of it, then that is a problem.  Good luck!

Answer 4

He is blaming you for something someone else did?

Guys who act like that, are usually insecure little boys.

You can try talking to him, but I would think that was a huge red flag, and sign of things to come.

Answer 5

well let him know that u love him and he should know that... that it doesn't matter how other people feel about u -like the guy who sent u the love note... as long as there are people in the world there's a chance for others to have a crush on u.. tell him u've been friendly perhaps to the guy but that u really don't feel anything for him and tht u r with him. to have a lil more faith and trust with u... if he doesn't things won't work out between u guys... that u love him and u don't wanna lose him for ghost that don't exist

Answer 6

Tell him:

a) Grow up

b) aww that's sweet you're jealous.

c) Oh no, I can't believe he sent this!  

d) It's all my fault I'm a bad (Girl friend/By friend insert here).

e) And what of it??

f) What you jealous he didn't send it to you?  Is there something I should know?

g)  I'm finding it hard to decide, you'll both have to date me.

h) Who needs a boyfriend I like girls now!!

Take your pick :0).

Answer 7

I think sometimes jealousy is a sign that they care a lot about having you and your company. At least that is how I am sometimes. I wouldn't get jealous over somebody I didn't care for. So just tell him that you care and you aren't interested in that other guy. Give him some more attention so he doesn't feel left out.