Will he leave his wife?

Question

It's been almost a year that I was seeing a married man but in the past 1 mth I met an eligible guy. I don't wanna two timing. I got along lot better with the married guy then Mr Eligible. But he wasn't sure cos it's only been a year, he knew he wife for 16 yrs. Should i give more time to see who is better for me?

Answer 1

Yeah right, Sweetheart, its all about YOU, isn't it?!

Answer 2

If he is still living with his wife, you should not be the third party, especially since they had been married for 16 years already.

If he can leave his wife of 16 years for you, he can certainly leave you after remarrying you. I think it is wiser to choose Mr Eligible now instead of "giving more time to see who is better for you". Good luck to you.

Answer 3

Why don't you get rid of the married guy, since he is MARRIED.

And spend your energies in life on SINGLE men.

This could solve your problem.  

Answer 4

He's cheating on his wife and you're the one scared to two time?! OMG. Go with Mr. Eligible. PLEASE!

P.S They NEVER leave their wife! EVER!

You, my friend, NEED to read He's Just Not That Into You. Look it up. Read it. Learn from it.

Answer 5

DO YOU HAVE ANY MORALS?  ARE YOU SERIOUSLY ASKING SANE INTELIGENT PEOPLE IF YOU SHOULD STAY WITH YOUR MARRIED CHEATING LYING DECEPTIVE BOYFRIEND?  WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?  HE STOOD BEFORE GOD AND MADE A COMMITMENT TO HIS WIFE.  PEOPLE THESE DAYS SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE WHO IS MARRIED OR CALL THEMSELVES HAVING A RELATIONSHIP.  YOU ARE JUST FOOLING YOURSELF IF YOU THINK YOU ARE MORE THAN A PIECE OF *** TO HIM.  YOU ARE PLUMBING FOR HIM (READ BETWEEN THE LINES)  WHY DONT YOU DESERVE SOMEONE TO MAKE YOU HIS ONE AND ONLY AREN'T YOU SPECIAL ENOUGH.  WHY ARE YOU SETTLING FOR A GUY ATTACHED TO ANOTHER WOMAN (HIS WIFE) WOULD YOU WANT TO BE IN HER SHOES?  DONT SAY IT CANT HAPPEN.  WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND  HOME WRECKER

Answer 6

Married man is always extra nice to you b/c you give him what he wants. Extra action on the side. He will not leave his wife, these types of things happen all the time, and even if they do leave the wife, they land up back, strong emotional connection to her from having kids. He is using you no matter what he says. If you end it, he`ll just go find another.

Mr Eligible is your best bet, do yourself a favor and his wife a favor and end it today. He doesn`t deserve the wife he has if he is that much of  low life to cheat and abuse the love and trust of his wife.

Answer 7

Do whatever you want, it will come back around to bit you in the a**!  Hope you don't ever plan on getting married.  Write us and let us know how that goes!

Answer 8

He will never leave his wife. And why would you date a married man anyway? I think you need to do some soul searching before you get involved in any mans life. I don't think you see all of this clearly, you don't want to two time these guys but don't have an issue fooling around with someones husband? That's ok with you. I say seek professional help into why you are so self centered. You sound like a narcissist.

Answer 9

And next year he will have known you for 2 years and her for 17... you can never catch up to her & he'll never be "sure" about you. The only sure thing I see here is him getting what he wants from both of you & you sitting around waiting for him. If he hasn't left  her by now he's not going to. But you knew this all along anyway, didn't you? Besides, if his wife can't trust him, what makes you think you can? You need to move on & move away from married men. The eligible ones are always a better bet. Good luck!

Answer 10

Mr. Married man has you back stage where Mr. Eligible would put you in the spot light on stage.... Why would you want to be with someone that can't be proud and upfront about being with you.

Besides that, he may never leave his wife... In a year he hasn't left and has had the joy of his wife with you on the side.

And are you aware that if he does wind up leaving his wife... another year or so when something else better comes along, he will do the same to you...

Answer 11

Men, never leave their wife.  Stop being his side line hoe and move on with your life.    

Answer 12

He will never leave his wife.  Homewrecker.

Answer 13

Very funny.  You possess a twisted set of morals.

Agree with most, men don't leave their wives, unless they are total idiots.    

Answer 14

Oh come on. THEY NEVER LEAVE THE WIFE!

Answer 15

Frankly, you wont have good ending to land up with a married man.  It will hurt you more... So better wake up and make up your mind to leave him. Good Luck.

Answer 16

I doubt the married man is interested in marrying you simply because first he's already married, and unless your something outstanding to him he's not going to go through a divorce to be with you, and two, he's already getting exactly what he wants from you and has been for a year.  If he hasn't mentioned leaving his wife for you by now then he's not going to.  I think you had better stick with Mr. Eligible and have a real relationship.

Answer 17

Leave Married Men Alone!

Answer 18

No, remember that no married man will leave their wife. If he can cheat his wife of 16 years, don't you think he can do it to you too. Move on with Mr Eligible. Why would you want to hurt his wife and be used by him....Leave him as he's not for you and you will be the one who gets hurt in the end dear....  

Answer 19

He sounds like a dirtbag...the married guy.  Why would you want someone that cheats?  Sounds like you are being faithful to him.  Is that your choice or his?  Bet he still sleep with his wife.  

Dump him and be the good person I think you want to be.

Answer 20

well you have been seeing a married man for a year and he still hasn't left his wife he probably won't.  And you are worried about 2 timing you should what is the married man doing to you?  What if he has a great married life and just has you for that nice piece of A$$?  Honey dump the married guy he won't leave his wife and who is to say he will not do the same to you?  The 2 timing that is.  Go for Mr. eligable he would be a better fit.  

Answer 21

He will NEVER leave his wife! If you want a man in your life, either choose number 2, or better yet, find a new one.

Answer 22

Why would you want a man who would leave his wife for you?  He'll eventually leave you.  

Answer 23

I would bet the his wife would have an opinion. Stay with Mr. Eligible, he may not be as nice as the married guy, but maybe he would be faithful! Unlike the married guy.

Answer 24

In short - Absolutely NOT!

In full - Why would he leave her for you when he's benefiting from you both.  Wake up honey, in case you haven't heard, 99% of men never leave their wives.  Even if he did, he wouldn't want you in the end.  No one ever benefits in a cheating relationship, NO ONE.  Further, even if he did leave and you two openly dated, it would never work.  Your relationship (house) didn't have a strong foundation, trust.  It would surely come down with the least wind, turbulence and rainstorm.  Build with bricks and fire resistant materials - a stronger foundation.

Answer 25

You don't want to two time? But he is married? Is it just me or is something just really messed up with that? The married man, do you honestly think would be better for you? If he cheated on his wife then he will cheat on you, there is no doubt about that. And you have an eligible guy and you are worried about two timing? That is really messed up. And if he was going to leave his wife then why would he leave you hanging for almost a year? Think about that.

Answer 26

After 16 years, he is not going to leave his wife.  You need to have a reality check.  Being an adulteress is not a good thing.   He is married and that is what you are now with messing with a married man.  How would you like it if your husband cheated on you?  Not good, huh?  So, you need to leave the married man alone and get on with your life with a single man.  Leave the married ones alone.