Will i get my man back?

Question

my longterm boyfriend keeps taking off from me saying he needs space.i suspected he was cheating but have no evidence.i do have mood problems and call him all the time. he always returns my calls saying he will meet me but never does, i am also pregnant with his child. he is still returning my calls. will he come back if i back off??

Answer 1

asking the same question again???

Answer 2

He won't come back if he has any sense. Why did you get pregnant knowing that you two have problems but to TRAP him. Never mind how the poor kid will do in all this, just think about your own selfishness and who cares about the innocent little baby. People like you and BF ought to have themselves spade and neutered.

Answer 3

He might come back if you lay off.  You need to whatever you can to be sure that he's in your child's life.  (as long as he's not a jerk/abusive)

Answer 4

Same question at least 5 times in last 30 mins.  Wow, umm if you act like this around him, no, your way too needy and he's gonna run off to the hills to get away from you.

Answer 5

Yikes. Are you usually on meds? Because I would look into that. Regardless of whether he wants you or you want him, you two had better find a way to act decently around each other for the sake of the kid. But to answer your question...I don't know...it sounds doubtful, but if he wants to be with you romantically, he will (assuming you're also agreeable). He left you. Why do you want him back any way? And what's to stop you from calling him all the time again? Because you have so much will power or something?

Answer 6

If he needs space, then why the h**l did you get pregnant?  You woman today make me sick with the way you get pregnant.  That is a child.  Not a trap!

You don't even have a relationship, because he is just your part-time boyfriend.  Don't you know that he only wants to have s*x?  Now you get pregnant and he's out the door.  Doesn't that tell you something right there?   It happens to so many billions of woman and you think MAYBE you would know better.

YOUR BOYFRIENDS DO NOT WANT TO RAISE A FAMILY WITH THE GIRLFRIEND THAT THEY'RE JUST HAVING s*x WITH.  

WHO THE h**l DOESN'T UNDERSTAND THAT?  

WHO DOESN'T UNDERSTAND THAT THE SECOND YOU GET PREGNANT IS THE SECOND HE'S OUT THE DOOR?

HE DOESN'T WANT TO SETTLE DOWN.  HE'S NOT EVEN MARRIED TO YOU!  

LIKE SO MANY BILLIONS OF WOMAN, WHAT DID YOU THINK THAT YOU WOULD TRAP HIM IF YOU GOT PREGNANT?  

WELL YOU LOST HIM NOW AND AGAIN ANOTHER CHILD WILL SUFFER WITHOUT A FATHER!!!  

YOU WOMAN TODAY BETTER GET YOUR SHT TOGETHER!

Answer 7

Try to give him space, but first offer to meet with him to discuss your concerns in an open public place.  Be prepared and let him know how you feel.  Good luck.

Answer 8

Can't really say whether he will come back or not, but you are right...you need to back off.  He also needs to remember that he is now a father.  Whether he comes back to you or not, he has a lifelong commitment to his child now.  If I were you, that is what I would focus on...your child.  Keep yourself healthy in body, mind and spirit.  It's so important for the baby.  All the best to you.

Answer 9

You stop chasing and he'll stop running.  What's the old saying?  If you love someone set them free, if they come back to you.......Assume he's gone and get on with your life baby included.  If he comes back, make him work to get back into your life.  He can't think he can just disappear whenever he wants to.  You have a life to live and a child to prepare for.

Answer 10

Think where the borne of contention occured that led him into such behaviour.And possibly to make amend with him,after which you can have him back.okay.