Would you be PARANOID?

Question

Would you be paranoid to leave your boyfriend in a hotel room with another girl? Because that happened to me... and it seemed like they were both trying to get me to leave.

Answer 1

um yeeeeeeeeeeees

he probably wanted to sleep with her

so typical of a man...

if u even had 2 second guess urself........

u knew the answer!!!!!!!!!!!

find another bf and friend

Answer 2

Why is there even a third party in the equation?? Your friend should not be hanging with you and your man. It sounds fishy, so go with your gut girlfriend.

Answer 3

put more detail.....how long were they trying to send you away....and why didnt your man roll with you.......let me know.....i personally wouldnt  have left my man alone for a long time....but then again....my man would automatically roll with me and wouldnt wanna be left behind.......i wouldnt call it being paranoid....your just paying attention and theres nothing wrong with that.

Answer 4

To  tell you the truth, I'd definitely be paranoid! My husband and I have

been married over 30 years, but when we were dating, my best friend was with my  future husband on the loveseat, having a beer with him

and cozying up to him.  I had only been out of the room for a couple of minutes! I was so angry and hurt, I rushed out of the apartment crying.

Hah! You would have thought he would have caught up with me and asked what was wrong, and EVENTUALLY he did, but he acted like "What did I do wrong"? Duh? So, my dear, don't trust your boyfiend with any girl, alone, apparently guys don't care about that but us girls DO!  It's not right and if your boyfriend were more sensitive to your feelings, he wouldn"t do that! I hope you can work it out like we did.

I booted my so-called best friend out of the apartment (in a nice way

though). Later we were still sort of friends, but not like before!

  Good Luck!

Answer 5

definitely

Answer 6

h**l yes...  something does not sound right with that at all and frankly i would not call that paranoia.  it is certainly justified.  for your sake i hope it was bc he was planning a surprise party or something.  

anyway, i would leave this guy.  he is only going to give you an ulcer and this is just the beginning of what is to come.  i may not be in the position to say this but based on what you said he is playing with your emotions and you deserve much better.  trust your instincts.  you have instincts for a reason.  i am sorry.  i know you must be hurting right now.  this is not easy.  i really hope i am wrong in everything i said.

*****just read your update--he said no way??  that is a little strange.  why would he say it like that?  how long were they alone for?

****N. is not your friend.  she does not care about you.  a friend would not do that unless you were all friends and since that is not the case, she should have gone back to her room or helped you look for missing J.

*****based on what has happened i think you will always have doubts when it comes to trust in your relationship.  at least i know i would.  if you think you might be wrong in your assessment and that you and your bf can overcome this by talking i would let him know how you are feeling and see how he responds.  if he gets very defensive and uncooperative (meaning will have no such discussion with you, disrepects/disregards your feelings, calls you names such as paranoid, etc....), it is definitely time to leave.  however, if you are 90% certain he was not being faithful or had unfaithful thoughts (even if  it was never acted upon) it is also time to leave.  I am sorry.  I know this is hard, but if you stay with him it will get harder to break things off later and you will be so unhappy and miserable.  Your happiness should come first. good luck.  i wish you the best.  :)

Answer 7

If you can't trust him, dump him.

Answer 8

That's because they wanted to have s*x... with each other... without you.

Answer 9

It would all depend on who the girl was and how much you trusted them.

I would probs be VERY paranoid aswell!

specially if they were both trying to get you to leave =O

i think you should probs not say anything to your boyf in case he might say your paranoid and break it off, although talking to him would be a big help aswell it would help you stop being so paranoid.

Answer 10

Yes

Answer 11

You know what they say...three's a crowd...I would bet that that is what they are thinking!

Answer 12

YESYESYES!

Answer 13

I hope you didn't leave! You need to show that b**ch that she can't ask you to leave the room and also, dump your boyfriend the next chance you get.

Answer 14

Uhmm Seriously. I hope you are not that dumb. You aren't being paranoid, you know something is up. It's called women's intuition. They wanted you to leave so they could s***w around. Don't be so naive and dumb next time. Oh, and get another guy.

Answer 15

ask yourself, why did they need to be left alone in a hotel room and why did they want you to leave? h**l yes! because it seems so weird!

Answer 16

i would never leave my my boyfriend in a HOTEL room with another girl. that's not safe. i would feel extremely paranoid especially if they were trying to get you out. i mean you never know if they were doing something else but what are the odds?