Would you go for it ??

Question

im 20 and im still hooked on my 1st love i still have a huge soft spot for him always will

i met him 4 years ago when i was 15 he was 16 we really liked each other but i put him off with to many texts an calls

last time i saw him was 2 yrs ago part from crimbo we passed he said hi

but il be seeing him again real soon iv grown up alot since then i want to talk to him when i see him see where it goes

if he liked me as much as i think he did surely he carnt of just stopped liking me over texts n calls i may of made to often haha

do u think i should approach him when i see him what if he has a girlfriend ? i carnt face the rejection again even though iv got nothing to lose ?? do rekon hel still have a soft spot 4 me ? what do u rekon hel do

Answer 1

Just talk to him like a friend and see where it goes from there

Answer 2

My advice to you would be to play he cool, let him make the move on you IF he's interested. You don't want to go slobbering all over him if you think that your over attention is what may have scared him off last time around.

Answer 3

In my opinion, he doesn't like you.  If I were you I'd move on.

There must be bigger fish in the sea for you.

All the best!

Answer 4

You can approach him, see what he says. Ask if he has a girlfriend, and if he says yes, congratulate him and tell him you think she is lucky to have him.

Do not set expectations for a relationship with this man very high. It has been two years since you've even heard him say 'hi' in passing. It does hurt if a person still really likes someone they don't see, but the hurt will pass, believe me.

This is why: there are plenty of fish in the sea. You are young. There is plenty of time. Don't worry and just live life, aiming to  be happy.