Wow This Is Annoying!?

Question

My friend who ive known for years, is being really offish recently. she causes alot of problems for herself and then looks for the attention. a few weeks ago she was living with me and she was lazy and untidy so she had to go now shes living in her own place and i hate going there because its in a bad arrear and its a messy place her boyfriends just moved in with her aswell and shes become really distant, so anyway im moving away next week and i have asked her to come over a few times but each time i do shes either 'ill' or doesnt get back to me. she attmited to me that her boyfriend doesnt like her staying over but i think she was just using my place when she lived with me before should i say something?

Answer 1

You sometimes get to know a person when you move in together.

I assumed she didn't talk to you about letting the b/f moving in.

That was "un-kewl" on her part.

Just tell her hey I was uncomfortable with the living situation so I moved instead of asking him to leave.

If she can't get past that logic, you might want to evaluate your friendship with her.

Answer 2

That is one of the longest sentences I have ever read.  I still don't really see a question.

However, it sounds to me like she is an acquaintance, not a friend.

You have the choice to not contact her.