Rejected by a guy...How can i get it out of my head?

Question

Theres this guy i like and he was my first kiss, first time a guy asked me to the movies, and first guy to ever tell me i was pretty. I felt so happy that i was so sure he wud want to be my bf. I NEVER thought a guy i liked wud want to be my bf so i asked him one day if he wanted to be with me. He said no. Just as friends. And i keep on thinking of it again and again in my head. And he rejected me a second time out of nowhere when i didnt even ask him anything. "I just want to be friends" After the FIRST time he rejected me, I started to get rly insecure and hold back on my personality i was always shy and nervous around him. Last month of school he avoided me at school and would try not to be around me. It hurts so much to think about him now its the 5th day of school and we havent talked. I keep thinking of that day he rejected me. It hurts so much. He was my first everything (cept s*x) and i duno after we kissed i was so sure he wud want to be with me......

Its been 6 months now that ive been likig him. Its so hard...=[

Answer 1

Mo N, I saw your question, and it  touched my heart.  I can  honestly tell you that it's going to take time to get over is callous attitude.  It's going to hurt, and there is no better healer than time and REAL friends.  Right now it's time to gather all your friends around you and count each and every one of them a blessing.  It's time to talk to your mom, because I'll bet she's had her heart ripped like this too.  Right now she is your first and truest friend.  Take heart, hun; you know his true colors now, and so does everyone else.