Relation ship help !!!?

Question

I have a friend who is from Thailand. Me and her our friends and I like her alot. But she said we cant date because Im not Hmong like her, she said If I was Hmong then things would be different. Anyways my feelings for her have'nt changed. I try to think of her as a friend but It's hard. I told her that I still had a crush on her. Was I wrong to tell her about my crush? Also I kinda think she may have a boyfriend, but this is all on myspace. Should I be upset at the fact she may have a boyfriend? Because In my heart I am upset that Im not her boyfriend.

Answer 1

I believe it has nothing to do with you being hmong, although most hmong families perfer their daughters to date hmong only.  Especially if they're from thailand.  I'm hmong so I would know lOL.  My parents are a bit too americanized to care about it though.  Hmong parents are happy no matter what decision their children make, as long as they're happy.  But most like to control their kids dating style and whom they choose to be with.  Don't worry about it so much and just ask her.  seriously.  Oh and NO you shouldn't be upset because you weren't her lover in the first place.

Answer 2

MOVE ON ALREADY!

Answer 3

why be upset at all?

Did you ask her if she has a boyfriend? Sounds like you assumed things you shouldn't have and now you are frustrated. :)

You weren't wrong to tell her how you felt.