Relationship Problem.?

Question

So I am in a relationship for 1 year and 5 months and lately its been so hard on me. Its like I'm always the one that keeps trying and the one that keeps chasing. Attitude problem is a big problem, for him its off and on one second he'll be all happy the next mad, what do i do? should i give up, try harder?

Answer 1

don't give up ,when it comes to the heart the mind can play tricks on it.You might need to sit down with him and tell him how your feeling and when he feels mad that you would like if he could instead of acting out his anger tell you whats frusterating him and maybe work things out like patners do

Answer 2

I think you need to have a heart to heart with him.  If this doesn't work in time, then you will need reassess whether the relationship is working well enough to continue.

Answer 3

My suggestion to you is to give up and move on. It sounds to me like he don't want to be in a relationship with you and is just scared or to weak to tell you. I bet if you break it off with him him  would not even put up a fight. He'll be like okay or say if that's what you want. You'll see it's better to break it off with you. It can really be emotional draining and atressful for you. Let Him Go!

Answer 4

you know what i gotta tell you I think thre is something in the air cuz I'm having the same problems in my relationship too and I'm trying to figure it out but I cant, but I could give u an ideaof what Im doing... I just let her said all she have to say then try to give an opinion and then remember how much I do love her dont get me wrong there is time that i do give up but i remeber how much and true my love is so I just eep trying to you really realize thats not for you I love my girl to death but when she gets in those mood I just block my anger and my question and put in a balance the goods things that has came out of this relation the goods and bads and is been more goods than bads...  

Answer 5

So why haven't you moved on.  In 1 year and 6 months - it won't be any different.

Answer 6

Guys have this thing called testosterone.  You should read about it so you understand his moods.

Anyway, it's hard to be in a relationship.  Hard for both of you.  I would recommend getting some counseling, or at least sitting down for an honest talk.

Answer 7

tell him how u fell and if he dont it like what u tell him  4 get him

Answer 8

sounds like he's lost interest. have a chat, make decisions

Answer 9

You should give him some time away from you & see if it suits him better. If he feels you will always be around through his moods he'll keep acting the fool.

Answer 10

You have to do what is best for you. Even though you have been with him for over a year if you are not happy and feel that the relationship isnt going anywhere you have to make the decision whether or not to stay or go. You have to ask yourself if this is a healthy relationship for you, do you see it ever evolving, do you truly love him. You need to make the decision based on what you feel is best for you.  

Answer 11

I would talk to him fist about your problem, tell him how you feel. if it doesnt change, give up, he is not worth wasting your time if he doesnt care. maybe he will relize he made a mistake and want u back, you never no

Answer 12

Try to communicate with him and have a heart to heart.  

Answer 13

Sounds like this guy has maturity issues that you need to discuss with him. If someone cares about you, then they also care about your feelings and don't put you through these type of mixed messages. If they don't concern themselves with your feelings, then are they really right for you?

Answer 14

just play a lil hard to get if that doesnt work then dump him.

Answer 15

Communication is the key.

Answer 16

sounds like ur in my shoes.....we broke up thought its really unhealthy when one person is the only one trying!

Answer 17

I think u'll give up when you've had enough. I had the same problem w/ my hubby for about 3 years.. it was me all the time.. even if it was his fault... I would still be chasing him.... I just never gave up b/c it felt right... now it's the complete oppossite... !!! Just use your brain and follow your heart... give up when you think it's time... not when anyone else tells you so.... Good luck!

Answer 18

girl! what are you still waiting for,if you are the only one that keeps chasing?hm that is not a relationship,don't even try harder coz he's gonna dump you before you even dump him,be the first one to dump him and move on.

Answer 19

try hared and if doesn't work dump him

Answer 20

talk to him tell him how you feel... and then if give it some time if things dont change in a few months then let go.

good luck

Answer 21

Give up! In a relationship you shouldn't have to work so hard. That's ridiculous.

Answer 22

Back away and act like him. Pretend like you dont care if he likes you he'll chase you and try harder. If he dont forget about him. You shouldnt have to try so hard. Good luck!

Answer 23

first try to understand him his likes or dislikes and then softly communicate with him