Relationship Problem!!?

Question

Is it a bad thing if your fiance tells you that he has no pleasure in anything, he told me he has no pleasure in anything, including our s**y life, everything is like work to him, he says this is normal, I say its not and that there is something wrong, I told him if everything was work to him that it would never work.

What should I do, leave ?

Answer 1

Pretty much. If he thinks everything is work and he's complaining about life in general then don't be surprised if your life with him continues to be be a hassle. Those are loser, coward, hopeless men that I certainly would never date, nonetheless marry.

What's going to happen is that he's going to 1. annoy the h**l out of you with his complaining and whining. 2. ruin the chances of progressing in life period 3. make you do all the things he can't handle because he just hates doing "anything" like he says.

Please wake up this marriage proposal doesn't seem inviting or worth a life time.

Answer 2

Honey,

If this is normal and you are going to marry him than no one can answer this question for you other than yourself. However, if he isn't the guy  you started dating, and things have just changed suddenly- then he probably is going through something and if he's not telling you what that is- there might be an honesty/trust issue there.

Questions to ask yourself:

Do you want to live with someone like that for the rest of your life? Do you  love him? Do you want to make it work through counseling? This isn't a yes or no question honey. There are a lot of components.

I hope everything works out for you.

Good Luck

Answer 3

I don't understand that one bit. Nothing is work. If you communicate and have trust in what you are saying is true, then there is no work. Having relations with someone isn't work either. You should want to do it because you love the person. I personally wouldn't waste my time with him. If everything is work for him then you need to find someone that will treat you right. Everyone deserves someone that treats them right.